crazy when you deep how one change in history altered the trajectory of what your life might be like. driving through ibadan thinking what if grandpa never converted from islam to christianity?
would I even exist? maybe not.
"for you, i would" is such a gentle & sweet love language. like, no, maybe i wouldn't usually do this, but i would love to do it if it would make you happy.
Human approval is unstable. Someone may praise you today and criticize you tomorrow, so it's wiser to anchor your life in deeper principles than in other people's opinions.