10 lesbian movies that had me questioning my sexuality for hours
1. Blue Is the Warmest Color
2. Carol
3. The Handmaiden
4. Portrait of a Lady on Fire
5. Bound
6. Disobedience
7. Below Her Mouth
8. Ammonite
9. Imagine Me & You
10. Mulholland Drive
Some of these movies didn’t just tell a love story… they changed brain chemistry
Gue se gak pernah main tiktok itu jadi kaget dikasi tau suami ternyata ada fitur beginian?! Bisa set video tiktok jadi wallpaper & lock screen (tapi kayanya di android aja deh di iphone gagal). Uwawwww. Maaf kalo kudet & norak 🙏🙏🙏
Ada tulisan cantik banget, kira-kira begini isinya:
“semoga kamu selalu dipertemukan dengan seseorang yang dapat berbicara bahasa mu, sehingga kamu tidak perlu menghabiskan waktu seumur hidup untuk menerjemahkan jiwamu..”
Dapet bocoran dari orang laundry,
Vanish + Rinso, kekuningan ilang, dan warna baju tetep cerah gonjrengg
Kalo mau pakaian wangi, caranya setrika dulu, diemin sejam, terus kasih pewangi. Kalo langsung diawal yang ada nguap itu parfum
AND WORKS GUYS! Kemana aja gue selama ini 😭
Nemu di threads...
Ini beneran kalo mau bikin anak ada pedomannya? Ku kira mitos belaka, secara sains gada. Tapi ini pedoman dari RS Brawijaya😭😭
Maaf aku belum menikah dan berhubungan, numpang tanya yang udah nikah. Apakah memang berpengaruh?🙏
Just sharing...
Pantes yah pahala memaafkan itu tidak terbatas. Bayangin aja kita yang ngerasain sakitnya, nangisnya, gemeternya, emosinya, sakit kepalanya, trust issuenya, tapi kita juga yang harus bisa ikhlasin itu semua, kita juga yang harus bisa memaklumi.
Sedangkan orang yang jadi masalahnya bisa dengan mudah hidup tenang & melanjutkan hidup setelahnya.
DYSPAREUNIA (PAINFUL SEX)
LETS TALK ABOUT PAINFUL SEX WITHOUT SHAME BECAUSE SEX IS NOT MEANT TO HURT
IT IS MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINK.
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When Pleasure Hurts: A Woman’s Body Is Speaking, and We Must Listen
There is a story many women carry quietly, and it begins in a bedroom and ends in silence. It is the story of pain where pleasure is expected, and of endurance where joy should live. Dyspareunia is the name medicine gives to painful sex, and yet the experience itself has existed long before we learned to label it. As a gynaecologist, I say this without apology and without whispering: sex is not meant to hurt, and when it does, the body is not being dramatic, it is being honest. According to the guidance of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists(RCOG), painful sex should never be dismissed, because pain is often a message, and messages deserve interpreters, and interpreters deserve time.
Sometimes the pain waits at the doorway of the vagina, like a guard refusing entry, and sometimes it hides deep inside the pelvis, like a secret with sharp edges. Superficial pain may come from dryness, from infections, from conditions of the vulva, and from the quiet hormonal changes of menopause or breastfeeding, when oestrogen slips away like a lover who forgot to say goodbye. Deep pain, however, may whisper the names of heavier things: endometriosis, pelvic infections, fibroids, ovarian cysts, or adhesions, and these are not small matters, even when they are spoken of in small voices.
But the body does not live alone, it shares space with memory and fear and culture. And so pain is not always only physical. Anxiety tightens muscles. Past trauma writes itself into tissue. Relationship stress creeps into nerves. Cultural shame sits heavily on the pelvis. The muscles clench not because they are stubborn, but because they are afraid. This is why silence is dangerous, and why secrecy delays healing. Many women think, This is normal, and so they endure. And endurance becomes habit. And habit becomes harm. Painful sex erodes self-esteem, strains love, dulls desire, and leaves emotional bruises that cannot be seen on a scan, yet they are real, and they are heavy.
It is also important to name things properly, because language shapes understanding. Dyspareunia means intercourse is possible, but painful, often because something medical can be found and treated. Vaginismus, on the other hand, is when the vaginal muscles tighten without permission, when the body says no even if the mind says yes. Dyspareunia says, 'Something hurts.' Vaginismus says, 'I am protecting you.' And sometimes, they walk together, hand in hand, pain and fear, feeding each other.
Care, when it is done well, begins with listening, and continues with gentle examination, and then with tests when needed, and imaging when the pain lives deep.
Treatment may look like lubricants or vaginal oestrogen for dryness, antibiotics for infections, hormonal therapy for endometriosis, physiotherapy for tense pelvic muscles, and counselling when fear or trauma is part of the story. This is not indulgence; it is medicine. This is not weakness; it is wisdom.
So let us say it clearly, and say it loudly, and say it without embarrassment: painful sex is common, and medical, and treatable. You are not broken. You are not abnormal. You are not overreacting. Your body is speaking, and it is speaking in the language of pain, and pain is a language we must learn to understand. Because pleasure should not require suffering, and love should not demand endurance, and silence should never be the price a woman pays for intimacy.
Tentu saja nama-nama ini bukan istilah sains resmi.
Asalnya dari tradisi penduduk asli Amerika dan catatan petani Eropa.
Nama-nama ini hanya menggambarkan musim & aktivitas alam, bukan warna Bulan sesungguhnya alias warna Bulan tetap sama saat dilihat dari Bumi.
Kekuningan saat dekat horizon (Senja/Subuh)
Kemerahan (polusi / debu / asap)
Putih terang saat menjauhi horizon
Hanya efek atmosfer, bukan karena “nama Bulan”
pov: you found modern version of SPREI LEGEND NENEK… and jujur nggak nyesel sama sekali beli 2 sprei motif jumputan ini🙂↕️🌟
feels like at grandma house, ADEEEM🫵 sekaligus support UMKM dari Surakarta…