@mysticsharks don’t blame your behavior on other people no one can “make” you avoid them. this is about avoidant people not being honest or realistic with themselves, getting almost overly connected to people where they expect it and then your habits come up and you start avoiding again.
yeah because you guys are great at announcing it upfront and definitely don’t get in over your head immediately and love bomb because you’re connection starved and then you’ll lie about what you’re capable of giving and then you fuck off again no warning. THAT’s the avoidance
it’s honestly sad how much avoidants get villainised and misunderstood. simply don’t involve yourself with us if you’re not equipped to deal with our occasional urge to step away when emotions get too intense
or “you’re always defensive” but if i say anything about how i was treated i get a movie monologue of reasons why they did or didn’t do everything and no apology but sure, it’s just me who is defensive. i s2g these people act like the stork brought me
fake progressive former republican boomer parents will be like no i totally understand it’s absolutely impossible right now and the world is on fire for young people. you might even die without social security.
but, you should really try budgeting!
MUFFIN TOPS. god i miss being 10. yeah my parents were miserable but my life was great i really enjoyed suburban living and no awareness of adult problems. just me and my muffin tops and reading under the blanket and american girl dolls and loving school and life. crazy changes
-the rice cake that is slightly burnt
-the eggo muffin pocket things i don’t think they even make anymore when the batter wasn’t fully cooked
😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
@mnoartss went on a date w a doctor. a doctor. i could tell he wasn’t attracted to me when i sat down. i offered to split the bill bc i always do and he said sure ☠️ YOU’re A DOCTOR BRO
Alex Pretti was shot multiple times while he was on the ground for attending an ice protest and people are like “Americans don’t have the balls to protest like France”
America is an active fascist police state and has been for decades, everyone just refuses to accept it
@jckbkrrr@GalacticaGay314 that’s nothing. mine was a mess her man divorced her she begged me to take her in. i didn’t wanna be near bs w men but literally a month after the breakup before her papers were even filed she was in a ltr. day we moved in. she moved him into my room after just a yr.
@Noxinull@Zhane_Star just because i would have rather made a different choice doesn’t mean i don’t make the most of the one i made and help as much as i can. which is a lot!
@Noxinull@Zhane_Star because it’s worth it to me? doesn’t cost me anything close to setting myself on fire. i work in high stress crisis psych work daily. it isn’t that difficult after you get over yourself
Thinking about the "you shouldn't expect friends to be therapists" shit and how I've driven 4+ hours @ 2am after working a 10 hr shift to go rescue a friend in crisis who was screaming & borderline violent. Then after bringing her back, I worked another 8 hours with no sleep.
@siekretz@TemiTems879@manirenee_ you sound like someone in an eighth grade reading group mad because you know you’re the one’s who aren’t ready for chapter books at 13. i’m deeply sorry you are seemingly average at worse and icarly was a tv show for kids.
@nutscratcher228@mexxxitwunk2@TemiTems879@manirenee_ im frustrated a part of the convo blocked me so i can’t respond and all of the tweets tag you too. theres dirt under my nails i can’t get out and it’s yucky and ew and dare i say caca