If you have a Man who holds you accountable, who tolerates no disrespect and attitude from you, who puts you over His knee and spanks you when you act like a brat, who holds you to high standards because He knows what you are capable of,
Then you know you have a Man who truly loves you.
Symbolism of the collar
Subs wear a collar to show they’re owned. It can simply be a sign of the BDSM relationship. For others, it’s a signal of sexy play time or just a personal statement.
Apart from the collar symbolism, the bond between D & s is the most important. 🖤
Why is dirty talk a fun part of BDSM?
• It enhances a D/s dynamic.
• It can intensify whatever you’re feeling and experiencing.
• It helps both people remain present and focused.
• It’s fun to play with taboos.
Remember: communication is always the key! 🖤
Spanking offers an opportunity to release the pent-up angers, fears & frustrations which real life inevitably entails. Spanking & impact play can also elicit pleasure and arousal. Handing over power to the dominant can facilitate stress relief, too. 🖤
BDSM rituals enhance your relationship with yourself & your dynamic:
- They deepen the connection with D & s
- They awaken new desires for kink
- They provide a connection activity when you’re apart
- They keep you in the right mindset
- They establish better habits & behaviors
This should be really obvious…
…but it's not, and it's often confused.
What turns on an actual dominant is submission.
Not overt sexuality, objectification, pain, humiliation, or rebellion.
If their primary turn-on is anything other than submission, they're not a dominant.
I allowed @BrattySlutToo to go on a trip with her girl friend. I found she didn’t complete her chores prior to leaving the country. I’d welcome some punishment ideas for this naughty girl.
Being submissive doesn’t mean you loose yourself or personality.
It means that you consciously surrender yourself to the Master that inspires and guides you to your own dark path of submission. 🖤