Evlensen pişman olursun, evlenmesen pişman olursun. Çocuk yapsan pişman olursun, yapmasan pişman olursun. Kierkegaard bunu 200 yıl önce şöyle söylemiş - neyi seçersen seç, pişman olursun, çünkü sorun seçimlerinde değil, hayatı romantize etmende. Bir insan her zaman gidilmemiş bir yolu çekici ve gizemli bulur. Bu yüzden mesele doğru seçimi yapmak değil. Seçmek ve hangi pişmanlıkla yaşayacağına karar vermek. Hayatta, pişmanlığımızı seçmeliyiz.
one of the ugliest truths about life is that every choice kills another version of your life.
get married, and you’ll eventually miss the freedom you had alone. stay single, and there will be nights when you wonder what it would’ve been like to build a life with someone. have children, and you’ll miss parts of the life you had before them. don’t have children, and you may spend years wondering about the family you never created.
there is no perfect path and there is no decision that leaves you with everything.
the life you didn’t choose will always look better from a distance because you never had to pay its price.
stop searching for a choice you won’t regret , it doesn’t exist. choose your life, accept what it costs, and live with the consequences. buena suerte 👍
You'll regret it if you get married, you'll regret it if you don't get married. You'll regret it if you have kids and you'll regret it if you don't. Kierkegaard said this 200 years ago as follows - whatever you choose, you'll regret it, because the problem isn't in your choices, it's in romanticizing your life. A person always finds an untravelled path alluring and mysterious. That's why the issue isn't making the right choice. It's choosing and deciding which regret you'll live with. In life, we must choose our regret.
Creo que una de las experiencias más conmovedoras de la vida es descubrir que alguien disfruta genuinamente de tu presencia. No lo que proporcionas, No tus logros. Solo tú, tus pensamientos, tu energía, tu existencia.
The best advice I heard from a stranger was this: give luck more opportunities to bump into you. Leave the house, take a different road, travel, say yes to new experiences. The more you do, the more life surprises you in the best ways.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist.
If you're an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don't make everything a matter of life and death.
Imagina perder a una mujer con valores claros, reservada, buena educación y una visión sana de familia. Una mujer responsable, congruente y con un corazón limpio, que no vive de apariencias ni de juegos emocionales. Perder a alguien así no es un simple error. Es una señal. Una señal de que no estabas listo para la profundidad, el compromiso y la responsabilidad que implica una mujer real.
top momentos de la existencia humana cuando frenás 5 segundos y pensás che ojo qué linda mi casa qué lindas mis vacaciones qué lindos mis amigos qué lindos mis laburos aaaa qué linda mi vida entera 💘😭
please find a hobby. join a book club, learn to crochet, knit, or make your own jewelry. take a pottery class. take up tennis or horseback riding. try a yoga or pilates class. learn a new language. you are meant to have multiple creative outlets!!!
Estás manifestando una pareja que será tu mejor amigo y la mejor experiencia amorosa que hayas tenido. Será estable emocional y económicamente. Leal y generoso.
Envíate esto a ti mismo inmediatamente.
La vida siempre conspira a favor de quien se atreve a pedir.. de quien se atreve a buscar, de quien se atreve a tocar... pero sobre todo, de quien se atreve a creer.
"Pide y se te dará, busca y encontrarás, toca y se te abrirá..." - Mateo 7:7-8