Why did I see an old whoo da whoo last night at the pizza shop across from the bar I was at… like it was a good meetup but wow everytime I see that person I get a flashback to my second semester of undergrad. lol their just so tied to that time period in my head but small world
& Ive really come a long way with forgiving or just choosing peace but some situations bc of my personal experiences I’m just not going & I’m not budging on that😂.you should forgive but I just kinda forgive from a distance but perhaps it’s just Me and that’s okay too
Don’t tell me genuinely bc I’m personally not there yet (especially if it’s weird behavior)to just move pass things as easy as the next person I’ve always processed that way since a kid Things sit with me I rethink reanalyze I go thru the 6 stages of grief & I still never forget
Especially if we both know the person. Just don’t tell me frl Cus like loyalty, family, sisterhood is very much a Really huge thing to me and I am not yet in that season where I can just be as forgiving as u considering it was made to be perceived as severe. Just don’t tell me
If u tell me sum somebody did to you and how if hurt you as if it’s severe and some that can’t be undone etc etc and you get back Kumbaya with them… genuinely just don’t tell me nun else abt what ppl do to you in further situations and just respect that as my boundary.