I told my therapist:
“I’m not suicidal…
but I’m tired in a way that scares me.”
She didn’t brush it off.
She didn’t say “everyone gets tired.”
She didn’t tell me to think positive.
She said softly:
I’m all over the place rn, making decisions, & doing what’s best for me, I’m stressing, I’m learning, I’m bettering myself. I’m trusting the process & keeping my faith high 🥹
you cannot be in a relationship if you don't like rules. Kindly stay single nd have your freedom to do what you want. In a relationship, you have to constantly communicate, constantly share, constantly account for your actions and constantly apologize when you are wrong!
it kinda makes me sad when i reflect back on instances where people knew exactly what they were doing and how it would hurt me and went ahead anyway. The ease of being casually so insidious will never not shock me
sometimes i accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be mindful of what others have going on and that is a flaw that I need to let go expeditiously!