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WHY MOST HOSPITALS IN NIGERIA DON'T ALLOW RELATIVES, INCLUDING HUSBANDS, INTO THE THEATRE DURING CS

I am a medical doctor. Let me explain this controversy honestly.

If you go to most hospitals in Nigeria and ask "Can my husband enter the theatre to witness my CS?" The answer is always NO.

They will tell you: "It's hospital policy. Relatives are not allowed."

But is that the whole truth?

No.

THE HONEST TRUTH IS IN TWO PARTS:

1. WHY SOME FEW STANDARD HOSPITALS ALLOW IT:

Yes, some few standard hospitals DO allow it. And I must commend them.

I have seen hospitals, especially a few good private hospitals in Abuja and Portharcourt, where husbands are allowed to sit beside their wives during CS. They wear a theatre gown, they hold their wife's hand, they witness the birth of their child.

Why can they allow it? Because they have a standard theatre.

A standard theatre has:
- A qualified surgeon
- A qualified anesthetist whose ONLY job is to monitor your life
- Trained scrub nurses
- Proper monitoring machines
- Standard sterility

When you have all that, you have nothing to hide. You are proud to let the family see you work. And that transparency builds trust. Families never forget that experience.

These hospitals are proof that Nigerian healthcare CAN be world-class.

2. WHY MOST HOSPITALS DON'T ALLOW IT:

Now, why do MOST hospitals not allow it?

Because what happens behind that door cannot stand being witnessed.

Ask yourself: If everything is standard, why are you afraid of the husband seeing it?

The reality in many places is:

A CS, which is a major surgery, is being done by ONE doctor who gives you a drug to make you sleep, and then rushes to operate on you himself. No anesthetist is monitoring your heart, your breathing, your blood pressure. If you stop breathing, who will know?

The theatre is not complete. Sometimes it's just one doctor and one auxiliary staff managing two lives - mother and baby.

And the aftercare - how mothers are cleaned and moved after surgery - if a husband saw it, he would cry.

So they tell him to wait outside. Not to protect your privacy, sister. But to protect a system that is managing.

This is not to attack all hospitals. I know many doctors are trying their best with poor resources. But trying our best should not mean we should hide.

3. The Emotional Factor:A theatre is a high-pressure zone. In an emergency, one distraction can kill. An emotional husband or patient relative who panics and attacks the surgeon or shouts at the team can cost his own wife her life. Even world-class hospitals that allow husbands first counsel them to stay calm and not interfere. Safety requires concentration.

So yes, sometimes we keep relatives out not just to hide poor standards, but to protect the concentration of the team and the safety of the mother.

WHAT WE SHOULD DEMAND AS NIGERIANS:

1. CCTV in every theatre: We put CCTV in banks to protect money. We can put CCTV in theatres to protect lives. A camera protects the good doctor - it proves he did his best. And it exposes quackery. Both patients and doctors need it.

2. For my fellow doctors: Let us be brave to say "No anesthetist, no surgery." It is not arrogance, it is patient safety.

3. For patients and families:Please, seek professional, standard care. Don't choose a hospital because it is cheap. Before you register for antenatal, ask: Do you have a qualified anesthetist? Do you have a standard theatre team? Do you allow my husband to witness my delivery?

A hospital doing things right will answer you with pride. A hospital that is cutting corners will get angry that you asked.

Mothers should not die while giving life. Fathers should not be kept outside while their wives fight for life.

If we want to stop saying "it was God's will" for avoidable deaths, we must demand transparency.

Let fathers in. Let families see. Let cameras record. Let standard be standard.

Because in that theatre, there are two lives - and both deserve to be protected.

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We are all selective sinners, choosing the sins we are comfortable with while judging those who commit the sins we are not comfortable with.

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Twitter (X) ma ta kama da wuta!

#TMG👇🏽

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Who is your favourite: the guitarist or the drummer? 😄

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“For the first time in Nigerian history, a former presidential adviser, former DG of a Federal agency, former Minister of the federation and two term Governor of a state was thoroughly grilled by both EFCC and ICPC.

Yet, no news of property seizure, no freezing of Bank account or confiscation of hard currency.

This is Malam Nasir El-Rufai” 💪

~Muhammad Kona

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No cheating 🤗🌹🙏

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Assalamu Alaikum
Sabahul khair

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Akasin tunanin dayawan mutanenmu!

Bana tunanin yaƙar feminism zai taimaka takowane fanni.

Mezai hana ƙarfin da muke bayarwa wajen yaƙar feminism mubada wajen yaƙar azzaluman maza, waɗanda suke cutar da ƙannenmu da yayyenmu agidajen aurensu.

Ina ganin idan mukayi haka maza suka gyara, tabbas Mata sunada hankalin tantance masoyi da maƙiyinsu domin zuciya tanason me kyautata Mata.

Kunga anjefi tsuntsu biyu da tarko ɗaya.

1. Mungyara azzaluman maza sundawo mutanen kirki.

2. Mun kawar da feminism domin Matan sun daina jin batunsu saboda Maza sun riƙesu da aminci.

Amma tabbas indai haka za'a cigaba da tafiya, ana ƙyale azzaluman Maza suna cigaba da zalunci tagefe ɗaya kuma muna yaƙar feminism lallai zai wahala Matan su fahimcemu.

Saboda wanda yake ruwa ko takobi aka bashi kamawa zaiyi, ma'ana koda feminism zai cutar dasu tabbas zasu karɓeshi domin suna ganin itace hanyar tsirace awajensu.

Allah yasa muzama Mazaje nagari ga Iyalinmu suma Allah yasa suzama nagari awajenmu.

Wassalamu Alaikum.❤️👌🙌

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The hunter becomes the hunted.

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A few days ago, I received unsolicited offers of $3 million, along with an invitation to a confidential meeting in London, from a highly placed individual whom I have been informed is connected to #Nigerian President Bola #Tinubu. I believe these offers were an attempt to persuade my firm to end our campaign concerning President Tinubu's alleged #heroin-trafficking records.

I refused the offers, immediately preserved screenshots of the exchanges, and forwarded all the evidence to the U.S. Department of Justice (@TheJusticeDept). It remains shocking to me that, despite the @FBI and #DEA's heroin-trafficking allegations concerning Nigerian President Bola Tinubu, @CNN , the @washingtonpost, and the @nytimes have never reported on this shocking story.

It seems The Washington Post’s slogan, “Democracy Dies in Darkness,” applies only when The Washington Post is scrutinizing President @realDonaldTrump and @Republicans. When it concerns the @JoeBiden Administration blocking the release of drug-trafficking documents concerning an African president, there is silence. True journalism in America is dead.

Dr. Karl Von Batten.
@GOP @WhiteHouse @PressSec
@KVONBATTEN

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I see how some of you talk about Nasir El-Rufai’s child struggling with being gay and substance abuse.
About a Sheikh’s son converting to Christianity.
About Governor Soludo’s son supporting LGBT.
About Yahaya Bello having a child with special needs.

You look at families in leadership and act like their struggles are different.
Like their pain is new.
Like crisis only happens to “important” people.

The truth is, many of you are carrying real-life crises in your own homes.
Situations you’ve been praying about for years.
Situations you’ve been begging God for liberation and redemption from.

Yet you want to mock people going through their own trials, as if your family is free from crisis.

Your challenge may not look like theirs.
But pain is still pain.
It’s not always because of sin.
Sometimes, it’s just life.
Human beings dealing with real, heavy, human crises.

God forbid I ever laugh at another person’s child.
I won’t.
I’ve lost family to drug addiction despite all the discipline, all the prayers.
I’ve watched other people’s children fall and break on the other side of life.

And I’ve learned this:
Because it’s not your child, not your son, not someone in your own home —
you don’t understand.
You laugh.
You judge.
Until the wound is yours.
Until it’s your name in the headlines, your child in the struggle.
Then you finally understand what life and family crisis really feel like.

The media space should never give anyone the audacity to ridicule another family’s crisis.

To every parent, every family raising kids who are giving them a tough time:
I see you. I feel you.
I pray for you.
May God give you strength when you’re tired.
May He give you grace when you’re breaking.
May He give you courage to carry this burden.
And may God lift the veil — and bring healing, restoration, and peace to your home.
Ameen.

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Some politicians are shameless wallahi imagine wannan kayan tasku fisabillillahi this so unfortunate wallahi
Wallahul musta'an.

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A karon farko da naga ƴar gwagwarmaya mai jin sha'awa.

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Amiin

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Most people are waiting for AI to get better.
Meanwhile, other people are learning how to use the version that already exists.
Don't wait.

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Stop asking:
“What can AI do?”
Start asking:
“What am I doing repeatedly that AI can do for me?”
That's where the real money is.

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Most people use AI to write emails.
Smart people use AI to build systems that write the emails for them.
That's the difference.

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NIGERIA BA LALACEWA TAKE BA HAKA AKESO A GANTA TIN LOKACIN DA AKA BAMU YANCI
Anbamu yanci ne Ba Wai mun karbi yanci ba

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Bari ku ji wani abun haushi da takaici. Sai da Nigeria ta shekara 5 da karɓar independence sannan ƙasar Singapore ta samu independence. Nigeria ta samu independence a 1960, ita kuma Singapore ta samu a 1965. Kafin yaƙin duniya na II, baki ɗaya ƙasar Singapore British Colony ce. Su na ƙarƙashin mulkin mallakar United Kingdom ne. Lokacin da aka fara yaƙin duniya na II (tsakanin 1942 zuwa 1947), a wannan lokacin ƙasarJapan ce take mulkar Singapore. Bayan an gama yaƙin duniya na II a 1947, immediately United Kingdom ta sake ƙwace ikon daJapan ta ke da shi a Singapore su ka sake mayar da su bayin su na mulkin mallaka. A haka suke tafiya har sai da aka zo 1959 sannan America ta ƙwace su daga hannun British Colony ta danƙa su a hannun Malaysia a matsayin ƙasa (amma marasa cikakken 'yanci). Sun so su zauna su haɗe da ƙasar Malaysia ɗin amma Malaysia ta ƙi yarda wanda dalilin hakan ne yasa ana shigowa 1963 'yan gwagwarmayar neman 'yancin ƙasar ta Singapore su ka fara neman yadda za su kafa ƙasar ta su. A haka su ka yi ta fama ba dare ba rana wanda ana shigowa 1965 su ka zama fully independent country.

Lokacin da aka baiwa ƙasar Singapore independence, a wannan lokacin mutanen da suke cikin garin Maiduguri ma sun fi su yawa a duniya. Tattalin arziƙin su ma a wannan lokacin ko rabin tattalin arziƙin jihar Lagos bai kai ba. Basu da albarkatun ƙasa ballantana su yi exporting ɗin su, basu da faɗin ƙasar noma ballantana su yi noma, hakazalika hatta independent wutar lantarki ma basu da ita ballantana su tsinana abun arziƙi ta fuskar tattalin arziƙi. Irin wahalar rayuwar da Singapore ta fuskanta abin ba'a cewa komai malam. Amma yau an wayi gari, according to individual living standards per Global GDP Ranking, ƙasar Singapore ita ce ƙasa ta 6 a duniya a tattalin arziƙi, a yayin da wannan Najeriyar da kake ji wadda TNB yake mulka ita ce ƙasa ta 182 (indai according to Living standards ne per individual GDP). Wannan shi ne gaskiyar abinda United Nation, African Development Bank, IMF da kuma World Bank su ka tabbatar. Idan baka yarda ba ko kana kokwanto GO and verify it yourself🙏.

A Africa mun fi kowa tattalin arziƙi amma mun fi kowa dabbanci a tsarin shugabanci. A ƙasar Singapore, a ranar da aka haifi jariri gwamnatin ƙasar za ta fara ba shi Dollar dubu $25,000 (kimanin Naira Million 33 kenan). Idan shekara ta dawo kuma za'a ba shi Dollar dubu $2,000 (kimanin 2.6 Million Naira kenan) har sai ya kai shekara goma 16 sannan za'a dena ba shi. Yana shiga shekara ta goma 17 kuma za'a fara ba shi Dollar dubu $10,000 duk wata (kimanin Naira Million goma 13 kenan) wanda a shekara duk wani baligi ɗan asalin ƙasar sai gwamnati ta bashi Dollar dubu $70,000 (kimanin Naira Miliyan 93 kenan) a matsayin Education Support Fund. Amma yau gamu a Nigeria shekarar mu 66 da samu 'yanci na iska doing nothing daga labarin wani ɗan asara zai chanza sheƙa daga PDP zuwa APC, sai labarin Al-Hikma ya fitar da sabbin magungunan ƙara girman mazaƙuta aikin kenan doing nothing to the global economy for over 60 years 😒👌. Sai kana haska irin cigaban da common ƙananan ƙasashe suke iya samarwa kansu na kece reni, haka kawai zaka hango wani Kazge da dogon baki yana faɗa maka cewa ƙaddara ce ubangiji ne yake jarrabar mu bayan kuma literally matsalar mu tantagaryar DABBANCI ne ta haifar mana da ita 😒👌