Not every relationship is designed to last forever.
Some are designed to teach.
When the lesson is complete, let the relationship complete too.
Gracefully.
Every morning,
You meet men crawling from prison.
Their shirts look like they were pulled from a bottle.
Their pair of trousers are worn out,
Their faces are long and sad,
Their masculine energy is fading. They walk tired, gazing into an emptiness.
These are men stuck in houses where their wives terrorize them.
They sit in these houses because they are afraid to leave.
They built nothing that belongs to them. They own nothing. Just children who have been strategically weaponized against him.
When they retire from civil service or as teachers or as employees in Indian-owned companies, they resign themselves to fate, enduring insults and mistreatment from their domineering wives.
Their only hope is to sit at the bus terminus, betting and gambling, hoping to undo their years of financial losses.
But it gets worse, they suffer hypertension, diabetes and prostate enlargement.
They become a burden to their families, and they are abandoned in the corner of the house to nurse a chronic ailment.
Their years of sacrifice get swept away by comments from their children,
"Our father spent years drinking and entertaining hoodrats. It is our mother who took us to school."
Or their wives,
"When other men were building wealth, what were you doing? I can't continue living with you."
Yet, his productive years were spent on providing for the family without fail.
Pain and agony, as he counts his last breaths.
Then, one day, the sun will rise without him.
The main door of the house will open without his cough.
His chair at the corner will wait for his warmth, but it won't come.
His legacy gets buried deep with his regrets.
Forgotten.
In the ruins of his sunk-cost fallacy.
If you are a man reading this, start building your fallback architecture now.
Remember,
You can lie down for people to walk on you, and they will still complain that you aren't flat enough.
Your independence, in old age, is your wealth.
WAKE UP!
Lara Logan just broke down a pattern that hits different once you see it.
They keep creating problems that can never actually be solved: racism thatās āunconscious,ā masculinity as inherently toxic, CO2 as the enemy even though we breathe it out, and differences turned into permanent grievances.
The goal? Issues without end. Skin color canāt change. Breathing canāt stop. Masculine instinct doesnāt vanish. So the problems stay⦠and so does the control.
Itās not about fixing anything. Itās about keeping the fight alive so we stay divided and easier to manage.
Once you spot the tactic, everything gets clearer.
What āunsolvable problemā have you noticed getting pushed the hardest lately?
"The greatest remedy for anger is delay."
ā Seneca
Sit on the message for one night.
Sleep on the email for eight hours.
The reply you would have sent at 9 pm and the reply you will send at 6 am are not written by the same man.
When you are tired, eat SALT.
When you experience a headache, eat SALT.
When you are angry, eat SALT.
When you are hungry, eat SALT.
When FASTING, eat SALT.
When your libido drops, eat SALT.
SALT is life.
#FoodFriday
Men,
Keep working,
You are a WARRIOR,
Your children may never see the storms you fought, but they will live under the shelter you built.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
One day, your son will stand where you stand today,
⢠Paying bills
⢠Carrying burdens
⢠Murmuring alone
That is when he will finally understand the price a father pays when sacrificing himself for the family.
It is not in vain.
Work!
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
The tears of a man are not seen because they silently drip into his stomach,
He bleeds silently in places his family cannot see,
This is so that the people he loves never have to cry or bleed.
So, work,
Keep going.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
You can recover from financial loss,
You can recover from an illness,
But years spent with a chaotic woman are years you can never reclaim.
They are gone.
So, choose wisely.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
A woman who repeatedly disrespects you in private,
Will eventually humiliate you in public.
What you keep tolerating because you want "peace,"
Will become your nightmare tomorrow.
Don't entertain mockery, sarcasm, or insults,
CHANGE or PERISH
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
A woman with tattoos is a mess.
You can ignore, but the consequences are severe.
⢠Several body counts
⢠Unresolved trauma
⢠Abortions
⢠Chaos
⢠Loose morals
Values incompatible with traditional family life.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
Pay attention to every signal a woman sends about her:
⢠Values,
⢠Lifestyle,
⢠Decision-making.
A tattoo is such a signal.
When you ignore these signals because of beauty, you will later discover that beauty was the cheapest thing she brought.
#MasculinitySaturday