I think people don’t understand how private you become after being in friendships with women who had secret animosity. I never have to worry about that now because I don’t make new girlfriends but it’s a hard lesson to learn. I don’t share a thing now.
Being charismatic or charming is extremely simple: go through life as you are god's fav and everything happens in your favor. Genuinely believe that you are blessed by fortune. You will observe people magnetically drawn to you, intrigued by you and love your presence.