the fastest way to kill motivation is to make your identity depend on the outcome. it’s called ego involvement. when failing becomes failing as a person, your brain starts avoiding the whole thing. not because you don’t care, but because you care too much.
Love without shared values is always going to feel like compromise and not the healthy kind but the soul shrinking kind. You can’t build a future with someone who sees the world in a way that dishonors you.
of the day,values shape everything.
How you treat people,how you handle conflict,how you define loyalty,love, and respect. I can't build something real with someone whose definition of "right" looks nothing like mine.
Our values have to align. We don’t need to have the same hobbies, same taste in music or the same love languages. But if we don’t see the world through a similar moral lens it’s not going to work. Because at the end
อยากรณรงค์ให้ผู้หญิงเลิกให้โอกาสผู้ชายพร่ำเพื่อ กี่ครั้งแล้วที่คนสวยต้องอกหักเพราะหลวมตัวไปรักปีศาจหมู ถ้าสลับเพศกัน มันไม่มีทางใจดีกับเราแบบนี้ women are way too kind