I think the best thing I'm learning as an adult is to ignore people. When you realize people say & do weird & evil things to get a reaction out of you, you learn that silence is more powerful than proving a point. No response is the loudest response. The moment you respond people start feeling important & think they bigger than the program but I control the traffic
One thing Imma teach my kids is to not put your life on hold for anybody bc if the roles reversed tomorrow they wouldn’t do it for you. It’s okay to be there for people but not at the expense of yourself bc that’s how you begin to gain resentment.