One day men will understand that women are reciprocators, not initiators. They step AFTER y’all step. You lead, they FOLLOW. Idk how else to explain this but it’s really SO simple.
Strong women want to be held and led sometimes too. To sigh in relief that she finally found that strong and steady ground where she can relax in her femininity and softness. Where both her fire and water have space to be and are embraced.
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
The worst thing you can do as a woman is settle. No romance, no flowers, no dates, no quality time. Just there. That’s a sad place to be! You have to want more for yourself because it’s out there.