Our president, leader of the Republic of Indonesia, watches the poor eat their meal.
He does the watching from a lavish setting, his own plate stacked with expensive food.
Poverty as an evening's entertainment.
Menghakimi para ibu yang anaknya menjadi korban kekerasan di daycare Jogja adalah bentuk sikap misoginis atau membenci perempuan karena sikap serupa tidak ditujukan kepada para ayah.
Dari dulu selalu nekenin ke temen-temen cewe, “Look who your boyfriend is friends with”.
Birds of a feather flock together. Cowo bisa aja akting baik & ksatria depan lu (ada maunya), tp liat kualitas temennya & kalian bisa nilai seperti apa dia.
Men have raped lizards, cows, dogs, men, dead bodies, kids in diapers, women in burkha, transgenders and yet people debate clothes matter. It's not her clothing, it's his mindset!
BREAKING: Seorang siswa SMK di Kudus bernama Muhammad Rafif Arsya Maulidi menulis surat terbuka kepada Presiden Prabowo, menolak jatah Program Makan Bergizi Gratis (MBG) untuk dirinya dan meminta anggaran tersebut (sekitar Rp6,75 juta untuk 1,5 tahun) dialihkan sebagai tambahan tunjangan bagi guru-guru yang kesejahteraannya masih memprihatinkan.
Ia berargumen bahwa guru jauh lebih berperan membentuk generasi muda daripada program makan gratis, dan suratnya yang diunggah di Instagram menjadi viral.
Orang dewasa punya standar tinggi kalau ketemu anak kecil.
Di mata orang dewasa, anak harus ceria, harus mau respon segala pertanyaan, harus mau salim, harus mengikuti norma sosial dengan perfect.
Anak kecil teriak dikit
"Gak diajarin ortunya ya?"
Anak kecil nangis
"Kok cengeng sih?"
Anak kecil slow to warm up
"Masih kecil udah introvert ya"
Anak kecil ikut ortu nongkrong, bosen, butuh input stimulus lain
"Rewel ya ternyata"
Kata gw mah elu yg rewel. Udah dewasa tapi judgemental banget ke anak-anak. Anak kecil tuh sedang belajar memahami dirinya sekaligus memahami dunia yang semua isinya tuh besar-besar. It gets too overwhelmed sometimes. It's a part of the growth process. Mari kita jadi orang dewasa yg wajar gitu lho.
Bayi berisik, balita rewel, nenek kakek yg jalannya lambat etc adalah dinamika wajar di ruang publik. Orang-orang yg nggak siap keluar rumah untuk menghadapi dinamika semacam itu dipersilakan gak usah keluar rumah sama sekali 👍
My coworker ended her five-year marriage over something most people would probably call “small.”
She told me that in their home, she naturally took on the chores. She cooked. She did the laundry. She kept things running. It wasn’t something they formally discussed... it just became the routine. And she went along with it.
Then she got sick. Not just a light cold... the kind where your body feels heavy and even standing up is exhausting. For once, she couldn’t function the way she usually did.
That evening, her husband came home, saw the laundry basket, and separated his clothes from hers. He washed only his. Later, he made himself dinner, plated it, and ate. When she asked if he could make something simple for her too, he replied, “I’m exhausted. I don’t have the energy.”
She said it wasn’t even the words that hurt. It was the absence of instinct. The absence of care. The fact that helping her didn’t occur to him automatically the way serving him had always occurred to her.
That night, lying there sick and hungry, she realized she wasn’t in a partnership. She was in an arrangement where her labor was expected, but his effort was optional.
People think love disappears in dramatic arguments or explosive fights. But sometimes it fades in moments like that... when someone watches you struggle and chooses convenience over compassion.
Jangan pernah gaslight orang miskin untuk menjadi pembenaran program negara 😇
Kenapa ortu gak bisa kasih jajan? Karena gak punya uang
Kenapa gak punya uang? Karena sulit dapet kerja
Kenapa sulit dapet kerja? Karena gak punya ijazah S1 dg 10th pengalaman kerja skor ielts 8.5 maksimal 25 tahun
Kenapa gak punya ijazah S1? Karena gak punya ijazah SMA/SMK
Kenapa gak punya ijazah SMA? Karena harus kerja jadi buruh kasar bantu orang tua biar bisa makan keesokan harinya