Baru saja kemarin merenungi kalau kebanyakan warisan kebudayaan itu dirawat dan diturunkan oleh sesama perempuan. Contohnya kayak makanan, pakaian, serta bahasa yg kebanyakan diajarkan ibu ke anak. Yang merawat komunitas di desa juga banyaknya perempuan.
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I grew up with present father.
Married a present husband. So I don’t need men to mansplain ‘not all men’.
But the narratives that men work hard, and had their brain capacity depleted due to their work, and then gaslight women who question/protest that their men are useless at home by calling it ‘safe space’, seethe the hell out of me.
As if domestic works are not hard work, and doesn’t yield the same fatigue.
Not to mention working moms, who still need to handle domestic work.
Workplace is war zone for men?
It is for women too? And your audacity had to make home war zone for women too?
Okay, okay. Maybe you’re tag teaming. Maybe you take turn to take rest.
But romanticizing the whole phenomenon of useless men at home as ‘safe space’, invalidates the fact that the system rarely rewards women’s hardwork with adequate rest the way it rewards men.
Because when women shut down, they risk getting murdered.
Buat yang merasa ‘aman’, hati2 aja, witchhunt ini #semuabisakena
Bisa jadi kamu, anak kita, adik kita, sahabat kita jadi korban, dituduh, dipukul dan ditelanjangi cuma karena rapi, bersih dan wangi atau pakai sunscreen.
Soalnya yang teriak2 itu bukan cuma jelek, tapi juga oon
Twit awal bilangnya 'emang lelaki bodoh kalau di rumah', sekarang jadi 'lelaki cuma pengen dipeluk karena cape'
Lakiku sih kalau lg capek kerja, pengen dipeluk tinggal bilang dan akan aku peluk. Ga perlu diem, pura2 bolot, plonga-plongo, atau apalah. Kaya gabisa ngomong aja
Our medical and social priorities are deeply skewed. When a woman is diagnosed with PCOS, the conversation instantly shifts to her ability to conceive, completely overshadowing the serious, immediate risks to her own health, including endometriosis, ovarian cancer, and cardiovascular complications
bitch i work i clean i cook i ride i take care of my body i work out i do make up, and life is hard for you because you gotta do what i gotta do?
the bar is in hell for you.