Hate to break it to you guys but sometimes you have to do things you don’t like for the sake of having a community. Avoiding consistency with the people in your life is working against us and the data already shows it. If you think connections can be sustained on absence carry on
everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager
> drive your friends to the airport
> go to their party even when you're tired
> stop cancelling last minute
> host at your place
> support the wins & losses
it's worth every ounce of effort
I’m having one of those days where I’m unable to move or be productive and I wish I could document it so other people can see that it’s absolutely normal but even that is work and I simply cannot do today 🥲
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
We are all adults please. Before you engage in a physical alteration, confirm your health status can take it.
Because which one be they slap/blow/push you back you dey fent?
GET UP!
People lack accountability, then say, "You could have talked to me." No, I couldn't.
You don't listen. You deflect and twist everything into an attack, then play the victim. Conversations with you aren't healing; they're exhausting, draining, and emotionally suffocating. Every time I try to speak, it feels like walking through a maze of blame where my words are used against me, my intentions are questioned, and my emotions are invalidated. I end up questioning myself, doubting my own perceptions, because nothing I say lands without being turned into some justification for your behavior..
This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be