Major cheat code for life: Become difficult to rush. The world will pressure you to rush into everything. Rushed decisions. Rushed conversations. Rushed relationships. Rushed timelines. There's immense power in rejecting that trend. Slow down. Create space to think clearly.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !
"Don't reply fast", "don't show you care", "don't be a homebody", "don't always be available"
I'm grown please, if I have to play these kind of games for someone to be interested in me then I'm no longer interested. I operate best when I can be my full and authentic self.