I like to laugh a lot. It’s not even about being happy. I like to giggle and laugh all of the fucking time. Can barely speak without a chuckle in there. Even when my world is falling apart, I just laugh. Laughing right now. Oh my god.
i genuinely always thought that a conversation could resolve everything; but sometimes, i think it's better to let people be the way they want, and just disappear.
Princess treatment doesn't mean he buys you whatever you want. It means he listens. He protects. He leads. He is humble. He communicates. He doesn't let you go to sleep crying or upset. He doesn't make you feel like you're hard to love. He is your peace in chaos and your home.
truly and honestly, i want to understand why makeup artists make it a big deal if a bride decides to do casual makeup instead of bridal
it makes absolutely no sense, is it your wedding???
Whenever I see topics regarding crisis in marriages, I simply pray to not be tested, regardless of who’s at fault.
No one stands high enough for me to use as a yardstick for my marriage. The ‘every man’ or ‘every woman’ rubbish doesn’t work for me.
I’d marry once and right ISA
“Get married with the purpose of getting closer to Allah and In sha Allah it will be a blessed marriage. Marry someone who will encourage you, elevate your Imaan, be a great model for your children and most importantly, bring you closer to Allah.”
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗤𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲'𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗼𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀
When a person is struck with hardship; illness, financial struggle, fear, loss, or helplessness, his heart naturally turns to Allah. In that moment, he remembers that only Allah controls outcomes, and he begs with sincerity, humility, and brokenness. His du’a becomes pure, his tears flow, his heart soft, because nothing else seems capable of saving him.
But when Allah, out of His mercy, removes the hardship and replaces it with comfort, wealth, ease and stability, many people quickly forget that the relief came from Allah. Instead of gratitude, they begin to attribute the success to their own intelligence, strategy, effort, and skill. They say:
“I worked hard.”
“My planning paid off.”
“I am smart and capable.”
They speak as though Allah had no role.
The same man who was once humbled by fear now becomes arrogant in comfort.
The Qur’an describes this as a form of foolishness because:
1. Hardship revealed the truth; that man is weak and in need of Allah.
2. Ease exposed the illusion; that man thinks he is independent and self-made.
Allah is teaching us that the real test is not only in difficulty, but even more in times of abundance.
Hardship pushes you to Allah.
Ease reveals if you will remain with Him.
The wise believer understands this, so when ease comes, he increases in humility, shukr (gratitude), sadaqah, and remembrance. He says:
“This is from the grace and mercy of my Lord.
Without Him, I can achieve nothing.”
But the foolish person lets his ego grow, forgets the One who answered him, and walks the earth as though he owns it.
The verse exposes how quickly man forgets his dependence on Allah, mistaking divine mercy for personal brilliance. True faith is proven not in how we call upon Allah during hardship, but in how we remember Him and show gratitude when the hardship is gone.