To whom it may concern:
Tyla has finally removed the Dec 22 Lagos date from her official A*POP World Tour schedule. So the highly talked-about concert in Lagos has been cancelled.
The compromised bastards in Nigeria who are eager to watch her can go to Cape Town and see her.
If xenophobic animals from your country are murdering Nigerians and you say nothing about it, Nigerians also have a right to boycott your show. If others cannot come to your own country to work and make money, you should also not go to other people’s country to make money. It is that simple.
• Women are humans, not entertainment.
• Women are humans, not public property.
• Women are humans, not something to “try your luck” on.
• Women are humans, not objects for your amusement.
• Women are humans, not invitations.
• Women are humans, not challenges to conquer.
• Women are humans, not there to satisfy your curiosity.
• Women are humans, not something you touch without consent.
• Women are humans, not your “just this once.”
• Women are humans, not your entitlement.
Women are humans. That alone should be enough for you to leave US alone!!!
While we were busy talking about Nasboi and VDM, Bandits tried to Hijack a plane in broad day light, at Akure airport .
Let me rephrase, bandits attempted to seize and take control of a Plane in Ondo State.
A Yoruba land!!!
But they are camped under my Chagoury tweet, defending his future presidential ambition.
Throwback to when the women at an office were asked this question: "If you're planning to purchase a wig for 150k, how much would you inform your boyfriends it costs?"
Here are their responses.
Applications are now open.
If you’re a woman looking to start or grow a career in Health, Safety and Environment, especially offshore or industrial HSE, this is an opportunity worth serious attention.
NEBOSH, in collaboration with L’Oréal, is running the NEBOSH L’Oréal International Bursary: Enabling Women in Health and Safety for the fourth year in a row. The programme offers a fully funded bursary for women outside the UK to study for the NEBOSH International General Certificate in Occupational Health and Safety.
What the bursary covers
• Full funding for the course and exams
• A globally recognised HSE qualification
• A real pathway to enter or progress in the HSE field
Who can apply
Women based outside the UK who are genuinely interested in building a career in health and safety.
Application deadline: 20 February 2026
Find full details and apply here:
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Could you do me a favour and retweet this once you see it?
First look at our gorgeous film, Onobiren. In cinemas from March 6, 2026. Preorder tickets from January 30. Learn more at https://t.co/4wSDNnzcuq
Girl to Girl,
Read your Bible.
Buy skincare.
Drink lots of water.
Exercise.
Eat healthy (fruits and vegetables, stop late night eating)
Know your people, stop pushing yourself to join a clique.
Start that business.
Invest in your looks.
Work on your mindset.
Travel, go out, treat yourself.
Read books.
Learn skills, become a woman of value.
Money is not your enemy, desire it.
PS: No more mediocrity in 2026💕
I’ll likely never post about this again, but I felt compelled as someone many young women look up to and often misunderstand.
I love my husband.
I love my independence.
I love being a CEO.
But more than anything, I love love.
Somehow we’ve been told we have to choose:
Be strong or be soft.
Be ambitious or be nurturing.
Be independent or value men.
But the truth is, the most fulfilled women I know live on the AND, not the OR.
I want to build companies, lead teams, land make big decisions all day and I also want to come home, let my husband make decisions and cook for him because it brings me joy and comfort.
That duality doesn’t make me less. It makes me a human.
Being independent is empowering… but dependence (the healthy kind) is what creates closeness.
It’s what builds trust, connection, and a life that’s bigger than what you can do alone.
Somewhere along the way, hyper-individual culture convinced us that needing no one was the ultimate achievement.
That being self-sufficient in every area was the goal.
But that mindset the one that keeps you guarded, controlled, relentlessly “strong” is the exact energy that can quickly erode your relationship.
At work, that energy makes you extraordinarily successful.
At home, it makes you intolerable.
I see so many women struggling with this not because they’re wrong, but because no one ever taught them the tools to thrive in BOTH spaces.
An adaptive trait at work, is often maladaptive at home.
Meanwhile, a lot of girls are busy trying to impress other girls on IG… polishing an image instead of building a life.
Somehow it became “uncool” to love men, appreciate them, depend on them, or let them be what they want to be.
Unfiltered truth: If you refuse to depend on your man for anything, you remove the very thing most men find meaning in to provide, protect, and build something with you.
Not because you’re weak.
But because you’re worth providing for.
And men feel this deeply … even when they don’t say it.
Women feel it too the desire to contribute in ways that aren’t measured in dollars, but in presence, warmth, and care.
This isn’t about choosing tradition or modernity and it is NOT about choosing men over yourself.
It’s about the courage to want a life that includes both strength and softness, ambition and partnership, independence and interdependence.
I love my independence.
I love my husband.
But the real power .. or even *magic* is choosing a life where both can exist without canceling each other out.
A life where love isn’t a threat to your strength but the very thing that makes you stronger.