Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. It comes in waves. Sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.
maturing is realizing that a relationship can work and actually be fixed in almost any situation. it just takes both of y'all actually wanting to make it work and correcting what you're doing that's hurting your partner
You gotta stay away from people that know they be doing fucked up shit to you , then be trying to play you like you crazy or doing too much when you acknowledge shit.
sèx is NOT love.
going on dates is NOT love.
talking 24/7 is NOT love.
laying up is NOT love.
love is somebody seeing the absolute worst side of you & still loving you the same, it’s somebody making stuff happen for you when you can’t, it’s somebody holding you & calming you down while you pouring your eyes out, it’s somebody voicing all the good things about you when all you see is the bad, it’s somebody making sure you okay, it’s somebody praying for you every day & night, it’s somebody that makes you laugh & smile when you feel down, it’s somebody that’s faithful behind your back, it’s somebody that can hear you when you’re quiet, it’s somebody that cuts off any & everything that makes you feel uncomfortable. that’s love. if you get that don’t play with it. 🤎