And y’all was saying the other day why do you give your number out &
Not text back this is exactly why because some men don’t take No lightly. Just give the number &
Block it after
If I’m dating you and feel unseen or emotionally neglected by you, I’ll immediately think like wow that sucks but also, do I want to have a kid with this person? Will they make my possible future child feel unseen and emotionally neglected as well? That’s enough for me.
You’re fully entitled to your child-free life, but not a child-free world experience. Children exist, they matter, and they are allowed to take up space.
Someone said it on tiktok I think….and I wish I could find it but it was a very wise piece of advice for the girls:
If you don’t look up to a man you dealing with, do not deal with him.
i’m tipsy & i feel like… fuck it you know? just do you man. the right people, jobs & vibes will find you. might take some time but it’ll come. just vibe thru it. find a hobby, try many. fail & fail again until you succeed. enjoy the sun & the rain. find ways to love your life.