This term could describe the discomfort or unease experienced by a listener (Person B) when someone (Person A) uses second-person pronouns to describe a third party (Person C) in a way that could be mistaken as referring to the listener.
I couldn't find an established term for this. So here
"Narrative Proxy Discomfort" (NPD) The discomfort felt by a listener when they perceive themselves as inadvertently becoming the focal point of a story being told by someone else, even though they are not the intended subject
Being a software dev is like being a chef. You're constantly mixing different ingredients (code snippets), adjusting the flavors (or functions) until you achieve the perfect balance. Its satisfying as hell