Women believe a man will die first, you know why? Because you don't take care of yourself, you slave for them and family and end up draining yourself, wearing yourself out, at the end you d!e untimely. Start taking good care of yourselves today.
I can’t lie we entertainers .. we Dey fuckup I won’t lie including me … we need to speak up … it’s too much injustice goin on .. our country don go 💔🇳🇬
Una no drag Wizkid, burna boy and olamide wey them keep quiet for all the evil things wey dey go on for this country. But Davido wey decide to speak up una dey drag am.
As long as there’s no penalty for false rape accusers we are going to keep seeing these women using rape to chase clout.
Put a damn penalty and end this madness!
Here’s the truth people avoid: sexual violence is real and men should absolutely call out predatory behavior. But false accusations are real too, and they destroy lives. Supporting victims and demanding due process are not contradictions. Justice isn’t a side to pick, it’s holding everyone accountable. Stop turning serious harm into a gender loyalty contest.
You're a mother, talk smart.
"Men should hold other men accountable", no-one sensib'e is denying that fact; But it should go both ways. Women should also hold other women accountable. There are many stories that have made headlines where women took advantage of both grown men, and min@rs. This is not talked about enough, and there also many cases of false accusations that has cost men their careers, and lives.
It is the height of stupidity to believe that in the course of your short life, your few decades of consciousness, you can somehow rewire the configurations of your brain through technology and wishful thinking, overcoming the effect of six million years of development.
One thing I’ve realized is that most people do want to get better but wanting isn’t the missing piece. The real limitation is spirit strength. Some loops are so deeply embedded that awareness alone can’t touch them and seeing the pattern doesn’t mean you have the force required to break it
Healing happens in layers
Many cycles aren’t psychological, they’re energetic. They’re held in the spirit and enforced by the nervous system, to move through them requires pressure, endurance, and the ability to stay present while everything in you wants to retreat to the familiar. Most people don’t lack insight they lack the internal force to push through discomfort without fragmenting
Awareness is passive, breaking a loop is active. It demands the capacity to sit in intensity, to hold tension without acting it out, to remain conscious while the body resists change and that capacity isn’t intellectual, it’s cultivated over time through discipline, confrontation, and repeated choice
This is why healing looks uneven, why people can name their wounds perfectly yet continue to live from them. The spirit hasn’t strengthened enough to carry the new awareness into action so the system collapses back into old pathways because they require less energy to maintain
Each layer of healing requires more spirit than the last and deeper the imprint, the more force it takes to override it. At a certain point, comfort-based healing stops working. Growth only happens when the spirit can hold pressure without breaking
So it isn’t that people don’t want to change. It’s that change asks for a level of inner strength most haven’t trained. Until the spirit is strong enough, awareness stays theoretical.
Breaking ancient loops isn’t gentle, it is earned and only those who can push through the resistance again and again move beyond them
Never beg to be chosen, build so much value they regret not choosing you. The man who creates demand never has to chase attention. Confidence isn’t thinking you deserve it; it’s knowing they can’t replace you
An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power, a mistake that will cost you a lot more than any temporary satisfaction you might gain by expressing your feelings.
Never show them the process. Appear effortless. The more they see your struggle, the more human you become, and humanity doesn’t inspire obedience. Hide your labor. Let the finished product look divine. Effortlessness is the perfume of power.
Outside all the noise it’s good to see that the good one does actually impacts lives and Pple actually appreciate! The support I’m seeing for VDM everywhere is encouraging.. makes one want to do more for the masses ❤️ FREE MY GUY