Good morning everyone.
I wake up this morning feeling very dismayed.
Observations of recent exchanges suggest a disturbing trend.
It appears that any attempts to engage in constructive dialogue or pose critical questions are met with direct hostility by 'Mom of KL' @amuse_gueule and her advocates.
The retorts, which range from dismissive directives like "Go be stupid somewhere else," to belittling comments such as "sit down, ma'am," show an unyielding, rude defensiveness rather than a willingness to engage in polite and open discourse.
The adjectives used, like "silly" or having "no substance," further illustrate the prevalent attitude of dismissal and disrespect.
These reactions raise questions about the nature of discourse encouraged by 'Mom of KL'.
Is this the expected response when one attempts to discuss and address critical issues of online privacy and doxxing?
The reasons for 'Mom of KL' dismissive and retaliatory stance can only be speculated upon, as they depend on personal motives and attitudes, which are difficult to discern solely based on online interactions. However, her behaviour may be driven by several factors.
Firstly, defensiveness is often a response to feeling threatened or cornered.
Mom of KL's strong reaction could indicate that she feels her actions are being called into question, which could be perceived as an attack on her personal identity.
She mentioned "ad hominems".
Now the core of the discussion has been Mom of KL's behaviour on social media, specifically her alleged, albeit indirect doxxing activities and the potential implications of her actions.
While this has veered into commentary about her character, it is important to distinguish that discussing someone's behaviour, especially when it has potential legal and ethical ramifications, is not necessarily a personal attack or ad hominem.
Ad hominem involves attacking a person's character to undermine their argument rather than addressing the argument itself.
In this case, the focus has been on Mom of KL's actions and the potential consequences, rather than her character in general. She may not fully understand the term "ad hominem".
Secondly, social media often provides a platform for people to express themselves more freely, sometimes even aggressively, due to the perceived distance and anonymity it offers. This can sometimes result in a more combative interaction style.
Finally, she may be employing these tactics as a means to control the narrative around her actions, using deflection and dismissiveness to avoid addressing the core issue at hand, which is the ethical concerns over her perhaps indirect doxxing actions.
Of course these are only possible explanations. It would be good for Mom of KL to comment directly and address them herself.
Such behavior only reinforces the importance of having this conversation about online conduct, and the vital need for civility in our digital interactions.
After all, the goal is to foster a community where thoughtful and respectful dialogue can take place amongst Malaysians without fear of belittlement or disrespect.
#OnlineCivility #DigitalEthics
Full Disclosure. I am a 77-year old retired high school teacher and the rights of both children and teachers are subjects close to my heart and vital in our digital landscape.
Please take note, @FadhlinaSiddiq.
The case of "Mom of KL" @amuse_gueule offers a penetrating glance into the paradoxical intricacies of the modern digital era. Her role in circulating a controversial video involving Shi Qi, an influencer and teacher, instigated critical debates on privacy and accountability in the digital realm. However, her actions also inadvertently triggered a wave of doxing and the emergence of the harsh 'cancel culture' - a phenomenon synonymous with online public shaming.
Though "Mom of KL" did not directly disclose Shi Qi's identity, her actions led to a series of unwarranted intrusions into Shi Qi's life, thus, contributing indirectly to the violation of the privacy she seemingly advocates for. Meanwhile, she persistently conceals her own identity, maintaining her anonymity while challenging the behaviour of others online.
Adding to the perplexing narrative is "Mom of KL"'s iron-fisted rule of cyberspace, as self-described on her own profile: "Tiger Mum with wind in her hair. She rules her household with a heart-shaped iron fist." Furthermore, it appears she solicits donations via a "Buy Me A Coffee" link on her profile, monetising her tweets even as they infringe on the privacy of others.
An unsettling layer to this digital drama is her rather abrasive approach to those offering differing perspectives, for example telling someone in the comments, "Go be stupid elsewhere!".
"Mom of KL's" discourteous responses are troubling, indicative of an underlying issue with the management of online discourse. She embodies the paradox of online anonymity - the ability to advocate for privacy while acting as an agent of hostility, shielded from personal scrutiny.
These contradictions pose a pertinent question. How might we facilitate respectful conversation, transparency, and accountability in an online environment that often encourages anonymity and sometimes hostility? Is there a middle ground enabling meaningful, constructive discourse without resorting to hostility or infringing upon privacy?
Navigating this digital landscape requires a collective commitment from all Internet users to uphold empathy and respect, even amidst disagreement. This includes avoiding actions that may lead to the violation of privacy, such as doxing, and recognising the complexities of advocating for privacy whilst remaining anonymous.
From a legal perspective, some discussions with experienced lawyers have revealed some need for caution and restraint.
In the landscape of Malaysia's legal framework, the activities of "Mom of KL" tread interesting terrain. According to the Communications and Multimedia Act 1998 (CMA), the transmission of any communication with the intent to harass or threaten can be deemed an offence. Therefore, "Mom of KL's" potentially hostile tweets might find themselves within the scope of this act.
Moreover, we have the Personal Data Protection Act 2010 (PDPA), typically targeting businesses and organisations dealing with personal data in commercial transactions. While it might seem a stretch, it's worth considering whether the activities of "Mom of KL", which did lead to the personal data exposure of Shi Qi, could fall under this Act.
The Malaysian Penal Code may also be relevant. If "Mom of KL's" actions have veered into defamation, threat, harassment, or incitement to violence territory, the Penal Code has several sections - including Sections 499, 503, and 507 - which might apply.
While Malaysia lacks explicit cybercrime laws, cyber-related transgressions can be prosecuted under the CMA, PDPA, and Penal Code's collective provisions. Whether "Mom of KL's" actions fall foul of these laws would ultimately be for the courts to determine.
At the end of the day, one thing is clear - navigating the intricate web of online etiquette and legal implications can be a challenging endeavour, underlining the need for respectful, mindful communication in our digital world.
Drawing from my years of nurturing young minds as a teacher, I firmly believe that achieving this balance is not only possible, but also essential. Together, we can foster a healthier digital community that champions privacy, discourages hostility, and promotes meaningful and respectful engagement, despite the challenges of anonymity.
Be nice to one another.
#DigitalParadoxes #OnlineAnonymity #RespectfulDiscourse #DigitalEtiquette #NoToHostility #PrivacyMatters #DigitalAccountability #CancelCulture #NoToDoxxing #ConstructiveDialogue #TeachersInDigitalEra #InternetRespect
@elorakdshn@dominicabyc Reality check: talented children around the world (actors, musicians, dancers, chefs) have social media presence & constantly post content.
Some of them might not have wanted to do this, but pushed by their parents to do it.
Does the same apply for these cases?
@amuse_gueule@rolypoly123_ How sure are you that she didn’t? Making class fun is a good thing. It’s Malaysia’s education system that needs to change. We’re taught to memorize & study for tests, & that’s why Malaysia cannot measure up to global standards. There are more important things to raise than this.
@pummkin@amuse_gueule @D666Smokey Are you really implying that this is a result of social media? It’s Malaysia’s education system that needs to change. This is a long standing issue and it’s not the fault of influencers.
@amuse_gueule @FadhlinaSiddiq I am the mother of the girl in your screenshot. I do not consent to you spreading her photo on your twitter. I gave consent to Ms Shi Qi to make a video with her but not for you to spread this picture. I will give you 12 hours to take it down before I take it to court.
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