I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
She didn’t get chosen initially, had a man embarrass her in front of her peers and behind her back, cried so many tears over said man, just to have a man walk in and tell her that he will choose her every single time no matter what and give her the world. THIS is love island.
Overall love island was really fun this season. But please let’s do more vetting before casting some of these men. I can’t watch another season of incels and bare minimum ass men. The girls friendship carried
Melanie and many people eventually learn that the hurt from having to walk away from something that isn’t for you is nowhere near as hurtful as staying in that same bad situation.
Sometimes you have to do what’s hard now, so life is easier/better later!
Melanie's Mom: “but remember your heart is sacred, never let them steal your essence.. I understand that a person can make a mistake once or twice but how many times, why are you giving him a second chance when there are so many others waiting for their first”.
I felt this!!!
tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
Quote of the day
“ Why are you going to give him a second chance, when they are so many others waiting for their first?”
- Melanie’s mom
#LoveIslandUSA
things i wanna experience in love:
• a birthday where i don’t plan nothing… i just get cute & show up
• “be ready at 7” & i’m not asking questions… just going with it
• random “i seen this & thought about you” gifts for no reason
• my favorite snacks already at his place… like you really listen fr
• flowers… not just on holidays, just because
• a handwritten note or letter i can keep forever
• him remembering something small i said weeks ago & turning it into something sweet
not doing the most… just intentional, genuine love 💕✨