يا حظّهم اللي ما بيحسوا بشعور دجلة بهذا المشهد..
هنا استسلمت..
هنا انتهت قوتها..
هنا خاب أملها وخلص صبرها..
هنا شعرت بالوحدة وهي عاجزة حتى عن الكلام..
حاولت لآخر رمق، وبعدها انطفأ كل شيء. 💔
لدرجة إن دموعي خلصت وأنا عم صمم هالفيديو.. المشهد هد حيلي وكسرني للآخر.
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This scene broke my heart, especially watching Dicle's facial expressions and gestures as she quietly listened to Erkan unburden his feelings. 💔
When Dicle said, “Are you afraid I will embarrass you?”, you could already sense how deeply her insecurities had affected her. She's been judged, belittled and called ignorant almost her entire life.
And when Erkan said, “After everything I've done for you?”, I think those words hurt her even more. Erkan may have spoken out of frustration and emotional exhaustion, but from Dicle's perspective, it could make all his love, support and encouragement suddenly feel like something she owed him for.
Then came the most heartbreaking moment, when Dicle finally surrendered and said, “You are right. I'm sorry.” 💔
To me, that wasn't simply an apology. It was emotional exhaustion. She had reached a point where she no longer had the strength to defend herself or explain her feelings.
Look at her eyes, her trembling lips and the way she struggles to hold back her tears. She simply sits there, quietly listening to Erkan pour out his pain while swallowing her own. She doesn't interrupt him or fight back. Helin's silence speaks louder than any dialogue. 🥺
And I believe this scene is one of the scene that helps explain why Dicle eventually decides to leave Erkan. It wasn't one argument or one hurtful sentence. It was the accumulation of everything she'd been carrying—the constant judgment, the fear of making mistakes, feeling monitored, the guilt, the misunderstandings and now the painful feeling that even the man she loves most might see her as a burden.
All those emotions had been piling up inside her until she finally reached her breaking point.
I understand Erkan's emotional struggles too. His entire world has been turned upside down, and he feels betrayed by the person he trusts most. His pain is real, but so is Dicle's.
Dicle didn't necessarily leave because she stopped loving Erkan. Perhaps she left because loving him while slowly losing her confidence, dignity and sense of self had become too painful.
Sometimes, no matter how deeply two people love each other, love alone cannot heal everything. Respect, trust, understanding and emotional safety matter just as much. 💔
And by the way Erkan, Dicle helped you to get the project don't forget that 🙄
#SevdiğimSensin | #DicEr
In this scene, Erkan says the thing that bothers Dicle the most: "After everything I've done for you." It takes her right back to the beginning, to when he saved her as a stranger. I don't think he meant to remind her of what he'd done. But by leaning on it to make his point, he makes her feel like she can never stand beside him as an equal. He really does love her, but he doesn't always see how this can make her feel like she owes him her love and loyalty.
She doesn't answer, because she gets it. And Erkan knows he's hurt her with that line.
Then he says that when they're alone, everything is beautiful and they're happy, but when other people are around, it all gets messy. Dicle looks at him with a hurt, knowing look. She understands exactly what he means. Being naive doesn't make him love her any less, and he's happy and relaxed with her. He'll stand up to anyone for her, but when other people are around, he sometimes feels the gap between who she is and where he's from.
I think Dicle is painfully aware of how naive and inexperienced she is next to Erkan, and that's a big part of why this hurts so much. She wants to grow and learn, to be able to stand up for herself and talk back, but she's not there yet.
She ends the argument quietly, without saying anything to hurt him back. All she says is, "You're right. I'm sorry." She knows he has a point, but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
I think Dicle considered ending things right then. But after Erkan leaves the room, she sees the rings he brought, and that pulls her back to him.
dünkü bölümü yeni izleyebildim🤍 ayrılık konusunda dicleyi haklı buldum erkan her fırsatta kızın cahil olduğunu (sanki cahil olmayı kendi seçmiş gibi) yüzüne vuruyor. dicle ile evli kalmaya ısrar eden kendisiydi? kız bunların başına geleceğini bildiği için hep boşanmak istiyordu
J'essaye de process tout ce que Erkan a dis comme dinguerie. Mais si y a bien une phrase que je n'arrive pas à saisir c'est "TOUT ce que j'ai fait pour toi pour te sauver"
L'a tu fait pour obtenir une reconnaissance éternelle ? T'as t elle demandé à cette époque de le faire ? Ne t'a t elle pas elle-même sauvé en premier alors que portait l'uniforme ? Ne s'est t elle pas exposée aux pires violences qu'une femme peit subir juste pour te sauver la vie ? Sa mère n'a t elle pas été criblée de bales pendant t on altercation avec les brigants ?
Anlamıyorum
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@R4Relaxed you don’t even realize how ridiculous that sounds and it seems like you don’t want to and you won’t understand, she doesn’t need someone controlling her she needs to LEARN FROM her mistakes how can she learn if she doesn’t make them
شف كلامه ويقولون ليش انفصلت عنه بعد فوقها تفله
عشانه انقذها يحسبها ملكه يسوي فيها اللي يبغى وترجعله عشانه بس انقذها كلزق بس عرفنا انه مصدوم ومجروح بس كلامه يوجع وواضح هذا اللي بقبله بس من اول مسوي نفسه مثالي اول ما جت الفرصه قاله لها
Ayy resmen senin yüzünden ne haldeyim, dertsiz bi günüm mü geçti diyor, yarabbim sabır 🤦🏻 Bölüm boyunca Dicle'ye bir yükmüş gibi hissettirdi, en son gitti işte o da.. Zamanlama yanlıştı ama doğru hareketti
#SevdiğimSensin
Nefes almadan önce bile Erkan'a danışmalısın Dicle'm. Mazallah yanlış alırsın, hastanelik olursun Erkanın başına dert olur..
Her şeyi kontrolünde tutamazsın Erkan, bunu bil !!
#SevdiğimSensin
Eu entendo o Erkan está abalado, mas ele JAMAIS pode comparar a Dicle a Inci e mto menos menosprezar o intelecto dela, foi tão pesado que até Tahir e Nilu falaram pra ele.
E ela agiu como sempre: íntegra, inteligente e amorosa
#SevdiğimSensin
Erkan's problem is that he takes Dicle for granted whenever he feels secure in their relationship. He assumes that because he has confessed his love, she will stay by his side no matter what, so he can say whatever he wants. I love how Dicle reacts to that side of him, though.
biraz anlayışlı olsan nolur sanki dediği yerde ağzının üstüne fırıncı küreğiyle vurmak istiyorum bu kız daha ne kadar anlayışlı olabilir aq melek olup göğe yükselecek yakında bi de Helin röpte bence bu sahneye istinaden benim sesim daha gür çıkardı dedi 😔ki ayrıldıkları sahne bu benim için aksini kabul etmiyorum
@R4Relaxed so you admit he needs to step back? he needs to step because he is controlling of course she has that mindset she grew up prisoner which is exactly why SHE TOLD him to let her make mistakes
istg if a man made my sister cry multiple times.. or if i heard him say to my sister the things that erkan said to dicle (regardless of the fact that he loves her) no one would be able to hold me back and i dont even have her traumas.. #SevdiğimSensin
@R4Relaxed and that’s is not a decision he gets to make by himself you can’t just control other people because you they have no control in their life he’s not her dad she has to make her own mistakes she needs to learn on her own do you not realize how ridiculous that sounds?