i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
@tiido_bling lowkey adulthood is realizing nobody is coming to organize your life for you… if you don’t build structure, chaos will happily move in and decorate the place itself!!
You’re bored because you’re not doing side quests, man.
Life is more than just working and then throwing yourself into bed doing nothing.
Here are 50 side quests to complete:
Hate to break it to you guys but sometimes you have to do things you don’t like for the sake of having a community. Avoiding consistency with the people in your life is working against us and the data already shows it. If you think connections can be sustained on absence carry on
everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager
> drive your friends to the airport
> go to their party even when you're tired
> stop cancelling last minute
> host at your place
> support the wins & losses
it's worth every ounce of effort
@ronancecore Two people thankful to be alive, but also understanding that they as a couple have run their course. The entire scene is them finally being honest with one another, something they hadn’t been for like 2 seasons.
Charlie Heaton says he was confused that some fans didn’t realize the Season 5 scene was a breakup.
“There was an online discourse. It kind of confused me because I was like, ‘Why didn’t people understand it’s a breakup?’ And then I remembered a lot of the audience is pretty young.”
No one talks enough about how exhausting it is for a woman to continuously give grace to a man. Too often, that grace comes at the expense of her own needs, her boundaries, and her peace. What starts as love slowly turns into self abandonment.
telling your brain “i know you don’t wanna do the thing and it’ll be very uncomfortable for you at first but you can do it buddy. it’ll be fine” is actually surprisingly effective. it sounds too simple but that fuckass organ WILL listen to you if you treat it with kindness lol