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[UncleTom🇿🇦 @Uncle_Tom11]

Being hated by the entire continent for protecting your country is a super flex.

South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 be proud!!! ✊✊✊

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@ShonieShontelle @_Hybreed_ Ngyakuzwa mina

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@fortunate_23472 @Shwe____ Don’t lie to yourself

[Africa Facts Zone @AfricaFactsZone]

South Africa defeat Kenya 35-20 to win the Rugby Africa Women's Cup for the fifth time.

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@nkrumahhh Aybo guys, y’all really want to be where you’re not wanted so BAD! Why??

[Olúwatósìn Olaseinde @tosinolaseinde]

The “Maluleke Sisters” usually refers to three high-profile South African sisters Tsakani Maluleke, Basani Maluleke, and Refilwe Maluleke who became prominent leaders in business, finance, and public service in South Africa.

They grew up in Soshanguve, north of Pretoria, during the final years of apartheid. Their mother was a teacher and their father a human-rights lawyer, and education was heavily emphasized at home. According to interviews, their parents moved them out of township schools because of political unrest and police raids during the 1980s.

Here’s why they became well known:
•Tsakani Maluleke became the first woman to serve as Auditor-General of South Africa, overseeing public-sector audits and government accountability.
•Basani Maluleke made history as the first Black woman CEO of a commercial bank in South Africa when she led African Bank. She is widely recognized in South African finance and corporate leadership circles.
•Refilwe Maluleke built a career in branding and strategy, working with companies like SAB, TBWA, and later Discovery Health/Vitality.

The sisters are often discussed in South African media as an example of upward mobility through education, discipline, and professional achievement.

[George Mnguni @Okay_Wasabi]

just wanna say, if there’s a group of people I dislike, it’s you people with whatsapp numbers that are different to your actual cellphone numbers.

[M-Jay🪅 @Jamesoflife]

Mature for sex and marriage but not for positions of power

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@Elisha239630 @TopeDada17 Read again, for comprehension this time.

[Kiki @Njoki_Njanja]

Not rapists…not pedophiles but someone using his own money how they see fit…
Logic gender they said

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@zizithebadgal Told myself a car depreciates in value, therefore I could never refer to myself as one and went and got 2

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@Szean94211 @TraceeEllisRows You have a comprehension problem. She didn’t say they don’t.

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@MofweLifts @mpheaux @MuchinduChishi2 What standard is an imaginary conference?

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@du4real @pontsho_mp How did you conclude that this man’s financial status doesn’t allow him to provide financially for the child?

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@Ndaba_Luh It’s dawned on me that men think ‘single mother’ and ‘single woman’ are two exact terms

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@LCabonena Inkani igcwele ikhanda!!!

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@zeentlerlebo @_motlatso_ @Burnerburnerac5 That’s a lie

[Z❤️ @ndumxndum]

@hymnfortaiwa That time MCC really is champagne

[Nsikan @CkanJohnson]

You can’t change someone. But you will anyway.

Not through arguments or ultimatums or that thing you do where you get really quiet and hope they’ll notice you’re upset. (They never do, by the way. They just think you’re tired.) You’ll change them the way water changes stone, by being around them long enough that they start to see themselves through your eyes.

I dated someone who interrupted everyone. Constantly. Mid-sentence, mid-thought, didn’t matter. It drove me insane for months. Then one night at dinner with friends, I watched her do it again, and this time she caught herself. She looked at me, then back at the person she’d cut off, and said, “Sorry, keep going.” Nobody else even noticed. But I knew: she’d started hearing herself the way I heard her.

That’s the thing they don’t mention when they say “accept people as they are.” You do accept them. And then they feel that acceptance so deeply that they finally have enough safety to look at the parts of themselves they’ve been running from their whole lives. Not because you demanded it. Because you made space for it.

But here’s the trap: if you’re asking “can I change her” with a specific outcome in mind, you’ve already lost. You’re not in a relationship anymore. You’re in a renovation project. And people can smell that a mile away. They can feel when your love has conditions attached. It makes them smaller, more defended, and less likely to grow into anything you’d actually want. Honestly, it usually just makes them better at hiding.

The real question isn’t whether you can change someone. It’s whether you can love someone enough that they feel free to change themselves. And whether the direction they’re growing is toward you or away from you.

Sometimes you date someone, and she becomes kinder, more thoughtful, and more herself. Sometimes she becomes exactly who she’s always been, just louder. And sometimes, this is the one that hurts; she grows into someone beautiful. Just not someone beautiful for you.

You can’t control which one happens. You can only decide how long you’re willing to wait to find out.