Make inconsistency your number one dealbreaker and watch your love life improve. They can't communicate, be considerate of your time/feelings or make the effort to make you a priority? Fine. Life's too short to spend waiting on people or wondering if/when you'll hear from them.
Note to self : it takes a very strong individual to sit with themselves, calm their storms, & heal all of their issues without trying to bring someone else into their chaos. Your journey into self-love is just that, & you are doing it. Keep going.
To attract better, you have to become better. You can’t do the same things and expect change. Transform your mindset. Upgrade your habits. Think positive. Be hopeful and consistent with your evolution. It all starts with you and how you feel about yourself.
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.