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@driftlesswords @autorobophilia @Nevertobeu16739 @Abelerrrrrr Some people get off to being vacuum sealed or fucking their car but I’d still call it some form of sexual attraction…

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@xeow People don’t seem to get that in animation when you give someone a noticeable thing it translates to exaggerated. People have hair on their arms for example but if you add hairy arms to an animated character it means SUPER HAIRY ARMS. Which is why the eye bags on a kid looks odd

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@ffiogmz @54132198G @masking__mama @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo That’s where I think there might be a hiccup. If you came into the relationship with “I’m ace, I don’t want sex” that’s different from what most of us is arguing which is “we’re each other’s prime source of sex, we used to fuck all the time, why don’t you touch me anymore?”

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@ffiogmz @masking__mama @54132198G @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo And being ace is not an excuse either, that makes it worse! What are you doing with somebody you know needs to fuck to feel connected? Get a roommate.

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@ffiogmz @masking__mama @54132198G @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo But then the solution isn’t to leave somebody hanging for a year. Tons of dead bedrooms are the husbands (usually) asking their wives for sex, trying to find out what’s wrong and then getting shut down. At that point it really does become a responsibility—fuck or leave.

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@ffiogmz @masking__mama @54132198G @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo I actually like my husband so the idea that you’re being forced to fuck the guy you picked to marry is insane to me.

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@ffiogmz @masking__mama @54132198G @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo I guess that’s all you can do 🤷‍♀️

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@masking__mama @54132198G @ffiogmz @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo Obviously! But how do they work through it unless both parties are willing to compromise and understand each other’s needs? I’m not advocating for cheating btw I just think it’s unfair to say nobody is “owed” sex in a monogamous marriage and thinking so is rape…

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@masking__mama @54132198G @ffiogmz @Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo Okay, but if the woman was feeling emotionally neglected would you side with her if she cheated? A lack of sex for men is being emotionally neglected. It’s not fair to marry someone with a libido and not engage with them and call it rapey when they’re hurt by it.

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@Kaohanachang2 @KankerSend10 @realspeckzo Last I checked, your husband is still a person with needs. Just like your wife should still be taken on dates and told she’s beautiful, a husband should be able to be intimate with the person he’s spending his life with.

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@XmasRespecter She was a kid this whole time??? She looks elderly! Why does she have the wrinkles of a newborn baby?

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@ToonHive I still can’t get over those humongous fucking eye bags

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@europa I’m a socially awkward introvert myself but it pains me how we’re trying to push for everyone to accept being as antisocial, antifamily as possible, as if it is a good thing to be the stunted family member who can’t handle a hug once a year when grandpa visits.

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@Stinkito_13 @Nereianait @Cero404 @Kdekeyform Okay but people are different and use sex for different reasons. People can hate your guts and fuck you just to destress or not feel lonely. Attraction is more complicated than “see person = want to fuck”

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@GavinMaheu12805 @yonkykong I play indie games, too, but people are particularly annoyed that AAA companies hire exclusively from Tumblr activists to uglify their games on purpose. Stick to the topic.

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@Kdekeyform I think people are confused by what attraction/sexual attraction even is. Asexuals seem to think the average person is aroused just by looking at someone on the street.

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@Nereianait @Cero404 @Kdekeyform But that’s the thing, how can you like someone for their personality UNTIL you get to know them? Getting to know someone is that bond.

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@pastamancerKol @GavinMaheu12805 @yonkykong We instinctively know what beauty is as a species along with what is ugly. Attraction is what every animal uses to find mates. It also applies to art.

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@GavinMaheu12805 @yonkykong Because normal people like beauty. I yearn to play games where the men and women are all good looking again instead of nonbinary slug creatures made for asexuals.

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@LGGroyper @verity_porn @jarrodpchambers @LumLotus Isn’t Kirara ALSO trans? MTF? So it’s still a man voicing a man except this one is also pretending to be a girl.