The WASP method of torture is to subtly take away all your rights and pleasures in just enough of a plausibly deniable way (and just never admitting it outright) that when you finally crack they can point and say "see, I knew you were a bad apple deserving of punishment."
@YammerTime01 Not defending Melania , but china’s First Lady probs grew up in extreme wealth. So access to better education
The only way out of melanias village was sports or SW