the idea of having 4-5 kids is very intimidating, but the families I know with 4-5 adult children now seem to be having more fun than anyone else I know
Clavicular says he completely stopped trying to get to know women on dates.
When explaining how he talks to girls now:
"I basically see any girl that I'm talking to as an audience for myself. Making small talk, I don't really give a sh*t what they're telling me. I started just telling them about looksmaxing."
When asked how the girls actually react:
"I talk for an hour straight, sometimes I don't even let them get a word off. And they like me so much more."
The era of moral superiority will soon be over, and will give way to the much more pure era of actual superiority.
(Which actually encompasses morality)
I don’t think enough women who want to date wealthy men know that wealthy men often hide their wealth in the beginning stages to avoid transactional dynamics
(That’s why turning up your nose at coffee dates isn’t signaling “high value” it’s is signaling “I am after your money” and those guys are specifically assessing for this)
there is one universal truth:
you have to use emotion for acquisition & substance for retention.
you can apply it to products, dating women, whatever. the same damn principle applies everywhere: what gets someone interested is rarely if ever the same thing that makes them stay.
30-35 is the best age to be a single guy and I don’t think it’s close.
You finally make decent money (hopefully)
You can date a hot 22 yr old or 42 MILF
You’ve been around enough to know what you actually want.
You should be in your best shape yet. Don’t randomly get fat at 31.
You basically spent your 20s building this, messing around and playing the field
Now you can actually find a wife & girlfriend
Take a normal 5’8 guy and have him approach 10 women at a bar with a completely normal opener.
“Hey, how’s your night going?”
Maybe he gets 1 number. Maybe zero. And even if he gets one, there’s a good chance it goes nowhere.
Now take the 6’2 attractive guy and have him do the exact same thing. He’s probably getting 8/9 numbers and can get laid with multiple same night.
The lesson for the 5’8 guy isn’t “give up.”
It’s volume. Chad might need 15 approaches to get 10 numbers. You might need 100+. But you only need one of those 10 to turn into your girlfriend…
That’s life. It’s unfair. Play the hand you were dealt instead of complaining about the cards.
Everything you want is on the other side of taking a shot, asking again, and not giving a fuck about what other people think until you get what you want.
You just have to fucking try.
A woman can only control you by spiking your emotions. That's her only move. Not logic, not reason. She's 100% emotion. Anger, jealousy, fear, validation, hope. Once she gets your nervous system to spike, your judgment collapses.
That's why manipulation always starts with emotional chaos. The government does it, the media does it, but women invented it. They are the true masters of the game. When she controls your emotion, she controls your behavior, and the person who can't be emotionally manipulated becomes impossible to own.
A lot of people betray their actual real family for their wife/woman nowadays
Remember your brother will always be your brother but your girl will only be yours conditionally
You must learn to play dumb in dangerous environments. Ask questions and request clarifications. Never show your intelligence outright. Force the others to overexplain and gather some information before making your move. In the wrong room, being a smartass can end horribly.
Never compliment her LOOKS.
It’s a subtle form of qualifying the girl. Girls want to EARN your praise.
Drives them nuts. They WILL ask you point blank “Sooo what do you think”
-I like your lazy eye
-Your lisp is adorable
-It’s cute how one of your arms is shorter than the other