One thing I’ve learned about reassurance especially in my romantic relationships is to just give it. If my partner says they need reassurance, that is the immediate need, so asking why or trying to get them to break down their trauma in that moment is not helpful.
i said “the worst thing about having a dog is he doesn’t know how much hotter i am than other dog owners” and my boyfriend said “please don’t say things like that”
Don’t NOBODY WANT TO BE AROUND PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS HAVE BAD ENERGY & ALWAYS GOT SOME NEGATIVE TO SAY! I do NOT want negative Energy around me, life be so great when you got Positive Energy Around You !!!