MEN: Your ex is dead. The woman you loved no longer exists. Accept that first, or stay stuck forever. She’s not the girl who laughed with you. She’s not the girl who cried in your arms. She didn’t “change a little.” She became someone else. Women don’t simply move on. They TRANSFORM. They shed identities. Rewrite emotional history. Reframe the past to justify the present. The woman you remember exists only in your memory, not in reality. You’re not missing her.
@VeryNotBadRev@opzzzsss@FTFonFS1@Chris_Broussard We disagree. Tatum and Brown do not complement each other well on the floor. Also, we don’t even know what the roster is going to look like to start the season. So much overreaction going on.
@VeryNotBadRev@opzzzsss@FTFonFS1@Chris_Broussard No, if they kept Brown, they weren’t beating OKC, SA, NY, maybe even the Heat. They’re worse without Brown, but they weren’t winning with that duo.
@BillKills5517@FTFonFS1@Chris_Broussard Of course it goes both ways. But we’ve had nearly a decade of Brown and Tatum and it’s yielded one title with an easy path. They hit their ceiling. If they went into next season with Brown and the current roster, they weren’t winning anyway.
@VeryNotBadRev@opzzzsss@FTFonFS1@Chris_Broussard Nothing. But that’s also an unknown since we haven’t seen it yet. Either way, if they kept Brown and went into next season with the current roster, they still weren’t winning.
@baasim187@FTFonFS1@Chris_Broussard I’m not putting an asterisk next to their championship. A championship is a championship and they hit their ceiling with Brown and Tatum.
It's not the sex that's missing. It's everything. No hug, no kiss hello, no snuggle on the couch. A guy wrote me: he sat next to his wife and she quietly slid away, didn't even notice she did it. He does. That's not a dead bedroom. That's a dead marriage, and he's just now seeing it.
A good man can destroy himself trying to love the wrong woman. Not because love made him weak, but because he kept pouring loyalty into a place that only knew how to drain him. He’ll excuse disrespect, call pain “patience,” confuse suffering with commitment, and keep bleeding just to prove his heart was real. But a man has to learn this: the wrong woman won’t become right because you loved her harder. Sometimes saving yourself is the most masculine thing you can do.
Your 30s are for raising a family while growing in your career and settling into a home as you save for retirement and find time and funds to travel and stay involved in your hobbies and be there for your friends' special moments and cooking your own meals while keeping a regular fitness routine and a clean house and still getting enough sleep to function.
@StoolGreenie Overreact some more. You don’t know if it’s a precursor to another move or what the team will look like to start next season. Even if they brought Brown back and started the season with the current roster, they weren’t winning.
Dating is so crazy right now that everything can line up. Y’all got the same interests, the same values, similar goals, the same sense of humor, great chemistry, plans of marriage, the communication is solid… and it still won’t work. That’s how wild dating is these days.
@omgsidewalks I came out of one of almost 3 years, and it took a while to find me.
First 2 years after, I was friend zoning everyone I like 'cos I don't know how to say I like them
I wasn't sure I'm capable of loving anyone again, also I hated my heart for the longest.
The fact that people can date, travel together, share secrets, and get really intimate for 3-8 years, and still break up literally scares the helł out of me.