The sex you're having is only as interesting, authentic, and passionate as you are. Most people are just fucking and not having full body/mind experiences. People are terrified to give intimacy but want to receive it. People think they're sexually satisfied but they're actually thriving on attention and being 'chosen'. Sex is often treated like a finish line or a bandaid, currency, or a hit of drugs, instead of a communicative and bonding experience that it should be.
When me and my sisters were in Colorado we went to Albertacos and put $5+ in quarters through one of their quarter toy machines because we never got to growing up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣