In 2011, five months into my PhD @IGIBSocial, I went on @jagritiyatra.
I came back with a question I didn't have the courage to answer: did I actually want this PhD?
I didn't know. So I did what felt safest. I kept going.
One last question:
What's the one decision you've been postponing that keeps returning to your mind?
Sit with it before you answer.
If you'd like to explore it in a thoughtful, guided conversation, registration is available via the link in my bio.
Hope to see you there.
That's why I created Navigating Competing Priorities.
Not to give people answers.
But to help them create enough space to hear themselves again.
This isn't a webinar.
It's a conversation.
๐ Saturday, August 1
๐ก 6:30โ8:00 PM IST | 3:00โ4:30 PM CEST | 9:00โ10:30 AM EDT
๐ Live Online
๐ฅ Limited to 20 participants so everyone has space to reflect, participate, and be heard.
Some seats have already been filled.
You come home...
but your thoughts don't.
You say "yes" when your inner voice is asking for a "no."
You keep postponing the decision that quietly occupies your mind.
If this feels familiar, you're not alone.
Responsibilities.
Expectations.
Fear.
Other people's opinions.
When everything feels important, it becomes difficult to hear what truly matters.
Sometimes, life quietly slips into autopilot before we even notice.
What is the one decision that keeps returning to your mind, even when you're trying to focus on something else?
Not because you don't know enough.
But because too many voices are speaking at once.
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@IGIBSocial@jagritiyatra I got my clarity in my late twenties.
Some people get there at 20. Some are still looking for it at 45.
There's no correct age for this.
This is the exact terrain we're working in this Sunday โ Navigating Competing Priorities, live, online. Link in bio.
@IGIBSocial@jagritiyatra I called my guide. Told him I wasn't submitting the revised thesis. I didn't want the degree.
Six years of work, and the hardest - and most honest - decision was the one to walk away from finishing it.
@IGIBSocial@jagritiyatra Looking back, I think I already knew in year one. I just couldn't afford to know it.
As a kid, "disruptive" and "rebel" were said to me like insults, not descriptions.
So I spent years trying to be as normal as possible - even when normal meant ignoring myself completely.
@IGIBSocial@jagritiyatra The moment that broke the loop happened in a small village called Thithimathi, in the Western Ghats of Coorg โ surrounded by nature and people who asked nothing of me except to be present.
That's where I finally heard what I'd been drowning out for years.
@IGIBSocial@jagritiyatra "Kept going" took six more years.
I did the research. Wrote the thesis. Submitted it. Got asked to revise it. Revised it.
Every single step looked like commitment from the outside.
From the inside, it was just fear wearing commitment's clothes.
In 2011, five months into my PhD @IGIBSocial, I went on @jagritiyatra.
I came back with a question I didn't have the courage to answer: did I actually want this PhD?
I didn't know. So I did what felt safest. I kept going.
Join us this Sunday to navigate these priorities together.
โ๐ July 19
โฐ 8 PM IST/10:30 AM EDT
๐ป Online
๐ฟ โน100 / $5
โReserve your spot:
https://t.co/vcGRfYtBNZ
To change this pattern, you have to hit pause.
You need time to find your inner compass again.
This means learning to tell the clear difference between a real priority that matters to you, and someone else's loud demand that they want you to fix right now.
This Sunday, we are looking at exactly how to do this in a confidential online setting.
We will discuss a practical framework for Navigating Competing Priorities and resetting your inner compass.
It is a dedicated space to pause, reflect, and realign.
Living in constant reaction mode drains us.
As a life scientist, I see how our nervous system is simply not built to be on high alert all the time.
When you constantly react, your logical center shuts down.
You stop processing and just survive the day.
We spend most of our days reacting to emergencies instead of making decisions.
When every single thing feels urgent, nothing is truly important.
We just run from one fire to the next, hoping to catch up. But the truth is, we never actually do.
We have got burnout all wrong.
โWe think it is just physical exhaustion - a sign we need a nap, a stronger coffee, or a weekend getaway.
โBut the deepest burnout doesn't come from a lack of sleep. It comes from a loss of identity.
Working in alignment actually energizes us. But getting there requires a pause.
โIt requires deciphering the difference between what is actually important to you and what is just loudly "urgent" to the world around you.