Nkazimulo Ncengwa

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[Swiss @BlxckSwiss_]

South Africa arriving in the round of 32 after the whole world wrote them off 😭🇿🇦❤️

[Lasizwe @lasizwe]

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NO DNA, JUST RSA

[Dr Koena Moabelo🇿🇦 @RealKoenaza]

Just retweet

[Danilo @odedanilo]

being South African means waking up and finding out you won something . it’s not easy being the greatest country in Africa but someone gotta do it 🤷🏽

[AKA @akaworldwide]

PROTECT SOUTH AFRICA AT ALL COSTS.

[AKA @akaworldwide]

SOUTH AFRICA is a fucking miracle, and BEING SOUTH AFRICAN is a fucking honor and a privilege. Don’t let anyone ever tell you any other nonsense!!!! 🇿🇦💯

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

Modern women obsession with "soft life" and "princess treatment" has made a whole generation of women completely blind to the brutal reality of what it actually takes for a man to provide that.

You are demanding a man be endlessly romantic, available 24/7, and constantly planning aesthetic dates, while he is literally in the trenches fighting a ruthless economy to build the very empire you want to rest in.
​You cannot demand the spoils of war and then complain that the soldier is too tired to entertain you when he finally gets home. We want the absolute financial security of a conqueror, but we expect him to have the carefree personality and infinite free time of a golden retriever. A man cannot simultaneously be at peace and at war. If he is building your fortress, you have to give him the grace to be exhausted

[Mia♡ @luxemiaa]

My man told me something the other day that lowkey rearranged my brain a little.

He said, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your father, I’m your partner. You’re grown, you can make whatever choices you want. Just know every choice comes with consequences. If you pick something that hurts what we built, that decision belongs to you.”

Then he goes, “I’m always gonna tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s how real communication works. But if I show you where the line is and you keep stepping over it, then you’re not protecting us… you’re just choosing yourself.”

And yeah… that’s when it clicked for me. Accountability in a relationship isn’t yelling, rules, or control. It’s someone giving you freedom and trusting you to care enough not to misuse it.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

We talk endlessly about "toxic masculinity" and the burdens placed on women, but there is a silent, terrifying reality about the male existence that the world absolutely refuses to acknowledge: Society views men as inherently disposable.

​From the moment a boy is born, he is subconsciously taught that his life is worth slightly less than the people around him. He is taught that his ultimate purpose isn't to be cherished, but to be consumed for the safety and comfort of others.
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We like to think we have evolved past "women and children first," but we haven't. In any crisis, a burning building, a mass shooting, or a war, a man's life instantly becomes the lowest priority. If a man escapes a tragedy while women perish, society looks at him with disgust. He is expected to be the human shield. He is expected to die so that others may live, and if he chooses his own survival, he is branded a coward for the rest of his life.
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Look at the way the news reports global tragedies. “Bombing kills 40 people, including 12 women and 5 children.” Think about the absolute cruelty of that sentence. The deaths of the 28 men are treated as background noise. They are just a statistic. Their lost lives, their severed dreams, the families they left behind, none of it matters as much. Society has been conditioned to view male death as the "default setting" of tragedy. A dead man isn't a heartbreak; he is just collateral damage.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

We women live a terrifying double life. A mother will look at her teenage son with absolute, boundless empathy. She will hold him when he cries, tell him his feelings matter, and pray to God that he finds a woman who loves him for his pure heart, not his wallet.

But that exact same woman will turn around and look at her husband, who is literally someone else’s grown son and treat him like a malfunctioning piece of farm equipment if he loses his job or shows a moment of emotional fragility. We completely compartmentalize the fact that the men we drain, stress out, and demand traditional protection from were once little boys who were promised that their hearts mattered.
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Look at the advice mothers pass down. It is pure, unfiltered hypocrisy.
We sit our daughters down and say: "Never settle. Make sure he is a provider. If he is struggling financially, do not build him up, leave him. You deserve a King." But if a mother catches wind that her son's girlfriend is treating him that way? If her son loses his job and his girlfriend packs her bags? That mother will lose her mind. She will call the girlfriend a gold-digger. She will call her toxic.
We are actively raising our daughters to become the exact type of women we pray our sons never meet.

[Wolf of X @WolfofX]

She was prepared, no matter the result

[Ludo Seame ♡ @LudoSeame]

Applying for jobs is insanely emotionally draining. 😓 😔

[Madida @MadidaMadiseng]

I always have that "Kuzolunga" in my heart noma izinto zingahlangani🤞🏼🤙

[A @AOSpeaks_]

What you do in private, shows in public. Reading shows in a conversation. Your diet shows in energy. Your discipline shows in confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching. Prioritize your time & focus on discipline/consistency.

[Muna @Munalozy]

My only relief is to sleep. When I'm sleeping, I'm not sad, I'm not angry, I'm not scared, I'm not hurting, I'm not feeling anything. I'm just there like nothing. You can't be sad if you're asleep. So sleep!

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

Another problem with having a good heart is that people think you're stupid.

[Mageba @Mageba_____]

"K'shuthi umphazamisi" 😭😭😭

[𐌕 🍂 @fwtimini]

Having a partner or friend who can speak life back into you and pick you up when you’re feeling low is so important.

[𐌕 🍂 @fwtimini]

You’ll think you’re a good person until you’re in a relationship, you drop your guard, fall in love, then all your insecurities, vices, weaknesses, and toxic traits surface, showing you you’re not as patient, kind, forgiving, or tolerant as you thought.