Most women aren't crying over a man. They're crying over themselves, the effort they gave, the hope they held, the delusion they fell for, and the realization that love didn't reward them in return.
Some years are really meant for consolidating, solidifying your plans, paying off debt, studying further and working towards your career/business next move. You need not to have bought an expensive car/house in order to have a good year. Sometimes it’s just exercising discipline.
Some people say they owe nobody anything, I can’t say the same. To the hands that have lifted me, I hold it dearly to heart, I pray i return the favor when the time comes.
I hope I don't meet another year like 2026. A year that tested my faith, broke me in places I didn't know could break, gave me hope, took it away, and somehow taught me to keep going. I’ve lost, learned, loved, prayed, cried and grown. And honestly, that’s enough😔
Fitness is weird. You start because you want a better body, then realize you’re building a better mind, better habits, more discipline and it changes your entire life.
& There is a man out there who will adore tf out of you, provide for you, study your every needs, prioritize your pleasure, and love every second of making you happy. So please Never settle
I think the problem is that we want to convince people to choose us. We truly need to go where we are picked , where we are loved and where we are chosen. Life is much easier when the people you love and choose do the same honestly. Trying to make them do that instead is hell. ❤️
Focus on jou goetes, work hard and deligently. Bula pelo. Clap for others. Stay grounded. Thabela batho. Tlohela tshele le depuo… o bone le wena life e re yes! 🙌🏿
My dad explained this to me and it has nothing to do with what my age mates are doing wrong/right. It’s just not my time right now. And it could remain like that forever or change with one decision, moment, luck or whatever. But I mustn’t look around for motivation. Only within.
It's Friday
I'm not pregnant
I'm not begging a man to be nice to me
December is 3 months away
I'm not typing a paragraph to anybody's son begging for love
And pampers is not a part of my monthly budget
Life's good 🥂
I love hearing my partner say “we” and “our” when they talk about the future. It’s such a small thing, but it makes me feel included, secure, and reminds me that they genuinely see us as a team.
Someone making time for you is one of the most beautiful expressions of care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and things competing for their attention. So when someone consistently checks on you, shows up, and makes room for you in their life, it really matters.