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To @lotussmalaysia , I really hope this gets your attention. (LOTUS’S SELAYANG)
Today was supposed to be a normal grocery shopping trip with my wife, who is currently 38 weeks pregnant and could give birth at any time.
Instead, it turned into one of the most humiliating experiences we’ve ever had.
After we finished paying for our groceries, this staff member stopped us right outside the cashier.
Without introducing himself or explaining the situation properly, he looked at my wife and asked:
“Akak simpan barang apa tu dalam perut?”
Imagine hearing those words directed at your wife, who is heavily pregnant.
I was shocked. I immediately asked him, “Barang apa yang wife saya curi? Siapa yang nampak?”
Instead of showing any evidence, he said they wanted my wife’s Buku Pink as proof that she was pregnant.
That wasn’t enough.
They also wanted my wife to show her stomach to prove she wasn’t hiding stolen items.
Let that sink in.
A woman who is 38 weeks pregnant was being asked to prove her pregnancy because someone thought her baby bump looked suspicious.
At that moment, I completely lost my patience.
I told them if they were accusing someone of stealing, then they needed to provide proof, produce the witness, and call the supervisor immediately.
Instead, we were made to stand there for almost 20 minutes, surrounded by other shoppers, while they tried contacting their supervisor.
My wife was already exhausted from carrying our baby, and now she had to endure public embarrassment on top of that.
When the supervisor finally arrived, I insisted that the cashier who made the accusation come forward.
When I asked her directly:
“Bila awak nampak isteri saya ambil barang?”
Her answer shocked me.
She admitted she never actually saw my wife taking anything.
Her suspicion was simply because my wife’s stomach “didn’t look like a pregnant belly” and she thought it looked like someone hiding merchandise.
So there was no witness. No evidence. No stolen item. Only an assumption.
Eventually, she apologised to my wife.
The male staff member who confronted us remained silent until I took a step forward to punch him. Only then did he apologise.
Honestly, this isn’t even about the apology anymore.
It’s about the way my wife was treated.
She is carrying our first child. She is due to deliver any day now.
Throughout this pregnancy, I’ve done everything I can to protect her, reduce her stress, and make sure she’s comfortable.
Then, in a matter of minutes, two staff members made her feel like a criminal based solely on the appearance of her pregnant belly.
No pregnant woman deserves to go through this.
No customer should be publicly accused without evidence.
If you genuinely suspect theft, follow proper procedures professionally.
Don’t make assumptions.
Don’t ask a pregnant woman to expose her stomach.
Don’t ask for her medical records to prove she’s pregnant.
And definitely don’t embarrass innocent customers in front of everyone.
I sincerely hope Lotus’s looks into this incident seriously. This isn’t just about us.
It’s about making sure no other pregnant mother has to experience the same humiliation.
Please do better.
To that guy yang confront us in the beginning, I’d say it was your lucky day because the only reason I tak tumbuk you was to avoid any violence in front of my wife.
And for you cashier lady, why kau tak jadi doktor je?
@Zuhri_Biggs@alif_haidar You can call what ever term yg you nak. But Malaysian never attack anyone UNLESS negara kita been attacked first. Ko tgok ada ke warganet kita titibe serang sosmed any influenced figure yg x kacau Malaysia? We call it nation online defensive army. Klu bukan kita, siapa lg ?
@SivaManiam45924@BendiTheBagak Dang. Money is colorless cross border for anything. That's the best way to define it. Also, if the Lembu is hidup, whoever bela it is still halal for muslim. Either ayam, lembu, arnab, ikan or whatsoever that can be eaten no need to get certified as Halal product.
@SivaManiam45924@BendiTheBagak And when does the gomen spend money for the Muslim only event? We spend our money ourselves. Aku x nak ckp tp ko dtg sendiri kat bagan serai. Muslim buy lembu from Hindu for the Qurban. Lol. Are u telling u guys sell ur mom for money? No gomen money.
@bckupacc99 Tah apa yg menggelupur sgt nak mkn kat rembayung tu tah. No doubt masakan sana sedap but that not only kedai exist. Wake up n chill. Next time ada turn kita. Setahun lg, 2 fahun lg, kalau KA dpt maintain kedai dia, masih sama mcm awal pembukaan.
@donamirhadi@zafranmustafa Betul. Mcm terbalik. Aku dtg nak order je, premis order kendiri tu asyik rosak je. So aku kena beratur nak order. Cuma part customer service dia out tu betul. Aku pernah kena sidai dgn cashier dia sbb dia meralit kat kitchen. Memang xkan dtg dah situ.
@nomadicmarul@harlenzulfi@pedoqpop Banyak kali dah x faham konteks diorg ni. Ammarul kata hospitaliti, haris indon balas dia akan hantar ammarul ke hospital. Indo dan bodoh tidak berpisah.
I pernah jumpa org gini. Nak tahu tak how to fix orang macamni? Yg selalu tanya benda2 kecik. Senang je, u kena stop micromanage /complain/ pertikai apa dia buat.
Mungkin punca dia jadi macam ni sbb u pernah complain kat dia “kenapa ambik bawang besar?” “Kenapa ambik yg tak elok” “U ni tak pandai pilih bawang la, tak elok” etc.
So dia akan rasa apa yg dia buat semua salah dimata u, and in the future ended up jadi apa? Jadi mcm dlm gambar kat bawah ni la. Dia akan suruh you yg buat keputusan sebab nanti you confirm takkan complain dah.
Samala macam memasak, or tolong arrangekan perabot, or bila orang tolong belikan u makanan. Kalau u banyak complain itu ini salah, ended up orang tu akan tak berminat untuk tolong u dah. Kalau tolong pun, dia akan bagi u yg buat decision, sebab dia malas nk kena judge
Kalau org tu buat silap sikit, or benda yg dia buat tu tk kena tekak you. U tutup mata and redakan je. Just nasihat softly and move on. Tak perlu ungkit, tak perlu pertikai lebih2 or pergi malukan dia dekat socmed or kawan2.
Lama2 orang tu akan adjust and learn sendiri.
U nak dorang fikir sendiri, tapi bila dorang fikir sendiri, u tak suka. Nk ikut telunjuk u jugak, lepastu penat sebab asyik jadi “decision maker”. Faham tak maksud i😅
@narastarz @Racunbarang92 Bini org pon ade dlm game tu. Bini org pon berb4bi syg dlm game tu. Tp nape haris kena ? Sbb dia artis yg ko nak b4bikan sgt. Ko merentan gatal tgn nak komen ikot otak semp1t ko tu. Hamzeng. Terpaling faham bini.
@TheMalayKeigo@Racunbarang92 Jenis b4bi komen. Dia stream sbb nak dpt duit la sibat. Dia stream, org BAGI duit. Konten dia levyu tu org tgok n bg dia duit melalui sosial buz. Nak harap org kutip dia berlakon, m4mpus dia nak tunggu. Dia live, dia boleh monetize. Bulan² dlm income b0doh. Kau ? Merentan je keje
Simpton masyarakat riba'
Waktu kecil, mak bapak subcon anak² kat taska instead of jaga sendiri.
Lepastu coping dengan ayat "quality over quantity" lepas spend 4 jam dengan anak waktu weekends selepas dah celakakan anak kat taska 40-50 jam seminggu.
Bila mak bapak dah tua, turn si anak tu tadi pula membalas jasa subcon jaga mak bapak kat rumah orang tua instead of jaga sendiri.
Lepastu coping dengan ayat "at least kat rumah orang tua dorang happy ada kawan-kawan" sebab si anak busy membayar balik riba' yang dibedal + absorb effects riba' zaman mak bapak dia juga.
Pahala yang berterusan melalui doa anak soleh tak dapat.
Pahala menjaga kedua orang tua pun terlepas.
Memang bahana riba'.
@Toothsadeh@OmarHamadD What the f-.. who in the world pray 4 knowledge? U guys constantly, w/o miss pray 4 mney n pwer. Oh also don't forget u keep pray 4 Muslim gone from the world by spreading Islamphobia. Muslim ever since keep increasing the knowledge. That's why the dirty western learn from East.