Iโm convinced that the most underrated trait in a romantic partner is that they bring peace into your life. Days are filled with enough chaos and uncertainty. Being able to come home to someone who defaults to emotional consistency, who creates a peace, is massively underrated.
Remember how Minister Aaron Motsoaledi would be taken to court every time he wanted to deal with illegal immigrants? Until he was moved to another Ministry! The govt didnโt want to deal with it
My favorite form of intimacy has always been asking questions, not to pry, but to understand the architecture of someone's inner world. The way they think. The way they feel. The way their past still echoes in their present. There's a depth in people that never shows unless someone asks the kind of questions that require honesty instead of performance.
100 % This is why surrounding your kids with families you have common value systems with is very important. If a child comes from a rogue family (even if the child is good themself), they shouldnโt be friends with your children.
People assume I isolate myself bc I'm antisocial, but truth is, I just observe how fake everything is and choose peace over chaos. It's a whole show out here with a bunch of clowns, and real ones are rare, so i'm cool with keeping to myself.
shyness is a manifestation of psychological wounds that stem from childhood experiences & generational patterns. if you don't heal these wounds, you'll be shy for life. it's mainly the self expression wound, the shame wound and the belonging wound.
So Iโm finding out now that South Korea were so sure that they were gonna win against us, they made travel and accommodation plans for LA to meet Canada in the round of 32 ๐
A calm nervous system changes the way you experience life. When you live from peace instead of urgency, everything carries a different energy. Your words become gentler. Your decisions become clearer. Your relationships become deeper. You stop rushing. You stop forcing. You stop needing to prove your worth. Instead, you move at a pace that feels true to you. You begin to trust that not everything has to happen today. You learn that things can wait... And everything you do becomes an honest expression of who you are. That's what peace gives you. A life that finally feels like your own.