Whenever the temptations of an addiction arise:
FOCUS AGAIN.
What is it that you really want?
(for example: lasting joy, self-love, purpose, etc)
Does this action help you get that?
Strengthening my creative muscle by tenderly and selectively feeding my content stomach (steel lined), and killing off the specks of fear that attempt to trail across me like ants
@boyiinterrupted You will tend to tell close friends the annoying/bad parts first bc they love u and want to hear your complaints. By the time you and partner go through makeup/healing sessions your friends are still mad at the wrong thing your partner did. They have an incomplete picture