@MsSavageAF This is normal, it comes and goes in waves. I felt guilty for having fun the day after Pepper died, my friends forced me to go out with them and I laughed so hard the entire night & I needed that. You’re going to have days where you hold yourself and cry, & days you’re fine. 🫶🏼
Some of you really need to learn the boundaries of direct messaging people.
There’s a HUGE difference between reaching out to someone about a collaboration and messaging them just to force a conversation or get something out of them.
If someone doesn’t respond the way you wanted, you don’t get to become angry, entitled, or disrespectful toward them. Access to someone does not equal entitlement to their time, attention, friendship, or anything else.
Respect the boundary. No means no, and silence is also an answer.
Damn guys I’m still shaking. As a BimboBitchBoy streamer these are big numbers. Thank you to my brother, sister and my lifetime friends especially. I also want to thank anyone who even comes by to say hello or just lurks. AS LONG AS ONE PERSON WATCHES I WILL CONTINUE TO GO LIVE
@_Wizdakidd @TheAonaranStore It isn’t someone else’s responsibility to tell you your behavior isn’t ok. The fact you even kept telling her to tell you to stop, shows that you knew it was likely unwelcome. Her lack of reciprocation or response was an answer. How do we still not understand consent/reciprocity
@DeJenQueen I have stories too, this is so scary and so inappropriate. I don’t understand why people think they somehow own us or that we owe them anything for just entertaining. It’s so hard navigating the parasocial shit, especially when people take it to this level. I’m so sorry 💖
‼️ Important long statement regarding my merch, aonaran, and wizdakidd ‼️
The last thing I’d ever wanna do is bring unnecessary drama to twitter — what I’m about to bring awareness to is important surrounding parasocial behaviors in this space especially for women. I do not want this man to do anything like this ever again & have always stood strong on keeping women protected in this space. I will be adding screenshots / audio recordings that are very uncomfortable to read/hear and involve the above mentioned “wizdakidd”. I trusted him to not only be the main coordinator for my merch but I expected him to remain professional being in this position he is in. As soon as I became publicly single a couple months ago wiz started to express interest in me that I instantly expressed I wasn’t interested. I figured things could move on because I genuinely love my merch & the last thing I’d ever want to do is discontinue it. After this wiz started to become obsessed , there’s really no other way to put it. Sending me messages constantly where I do not reply or send very one two word answers back. It then would escalate to him expressing he’s “ in love with me “ and would then evolve into something very scary and delusional from there. He has my address due to him handling my merch and has even sent an unwarranted gift to my personal address as of recent. On top of my mother having cancer and all of the personal stressors I’ve had I waited a bit to come out about all of this because I wanted to make sure that I was not only safe considering he knows where I live but that I was in the right mental to bring this all to light because it’s a lot and I’m already extremely overwhelmed. All of what I’m saying genuinely has no depth to what I will be including screenshot wise below, it’s seriously disgusting. I trusted him and should have been able to trust the person who has such a presence in this online community. He instead has left me no option but to completely discontinue any contact with him as well as my merch as a whole. I am so so grateful for everyone who supported me and my merch and I hope that yall will still love the designs and wear them if you did purchase. One day when I feel comfortable I will seek new avenues for merch and more so. Love yall and please spread the word to those who you know have merch through him and/or he hangouts in y’all’s communities. Will be adding some screenshots + screen recordings below. I will always do what I can to keep women safe ❤️ will include some physical evidence right after this is posted , buckle up because what the actual fuck is the only reasonable thing to say 🫠
WE FUCKING DID IT! After so many attempts after a year and half of bs & really good times. You all never gave up on me. & we fucking did it! Thank you all for the support! This feels so unreal. I’m crying. WE ARE TWITCH PARTNERED BABY! W COMMUNITY!