Work hard
Mind your business
Stay out of trouble
Make money
Make few friends
Make more money
Make your family proud
Take care of your family
Work harder
Make more money
And keep it moving…
life is wildly unpredictable, you can spend the first half of the year from january to june feeling like everything is falling apart and struggling hard, only for things to shift suddenly from july and the rest of the year turns into your best chapter yet.
i have a confession to make:
i ate a lot of people’s food when i was a young unmarried bachelor not my fault they kept coming back to my crib cos they saw wealth in abundance. funny thing is, i never spent; they were the ones still spending unprovoked. look, as a young man, money is your biggest leverage. i’ll tell you that for free, make sure to have some.
& whatever thing you’re doing to make it, take it very seriously. life without money is really hard to explain.
SIGNS THAT YOU'VE MATURED:
1. You prefer staying at home.
2. You like being alone.
3. You're no longer excited about your birthday.
4. You've become a quiet person.
5. You're not easily excited about everything anymore.
6. You think more about needs rather than wants.
7. You imagine and reflect before going to sleep.
8. You think a lot about your future and feel like you want everything to happen faster.
9. You avoid drama and focus on how to survive real life every day.
During sex, don’t go in until you’ve gotten her to the point where she starts reaching for the dick and tries to slide it in herself.
Never be in a hurry to go in. That’s how you meet the pussy at its best.
- Everybody knows what they are doing.
- No woman is talking to only one man.
- You cannot be supporting Tinubu and be mentally stable.
- Without money, you cannot be a better friend, partner, sibling, colleague, and so on. Money carries human relationships but love often takes the credit.
- Praying for Nigeria is a sign of low IQ. It is a very useless thing to do.
- If your partner cheats on you and you continue to stay in that relationship, you are a fóol.
A perfect retirement plan is waking up in your mansion by the seaside, with exotic cars in the garage and a loaded bank account. Not waking up next to a woman.
Y’all simps always act like women are the prize . They’re not. The real prize is freedom, peace of mind, and financial security.
A woman leaving you because you are struggling is understandable, because if she can't help you, she needs to leave you alone so you focus and make it 😆.
There’s no glory in suffering together. But trying to win that same woman back after you become financially stable that's stupidity.
some guys don’t just wake up hating on women or carrying resentment, they notice a pattern they can no longer ignore.
they notice when a woman breaks down, life makes room for her. people gather around, support arrives and she is allowed to be soft, confused and unsteady for a while.
but when a guy hits that same wall, the world rarely pauses.
instead, it reassesses his value & suddenly he’s no longer dependable , no longer leading and no longer enough even the people closest to him may start looking for his replacements instead of helping him recover.
so a guy learns early that his struggles are private, his pain is inconvenient & that his only socially acceptable form of survival is silent repair.
mine?
the only thing i can say is:
stop making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions. most people ruin opportunities, relationships, money and even their future cos they reacted in a moment instead of thinking long term
anger fades
excitement fades
pressure fades
but the consequences of ur decisions can stay for years so really learn to pause , think twice and move with clarity not impulse.
buena suerte 👍
the saddest lie people believe is that there is an age where life is basically over. like there’s some invisible deadline for becoming successful, confident, loved, healthy, fulfilled.
so they slowly give up on themselves. they stop trying new things. stop believing they can change. they begin living like their future has already been decided. but life is strange. people hit rock bottom at 40 and rebuild themselves at 41. people spend years lost and suddenly discover purpose in a random season of their life. some people bloom early.
some bloom after pain breaks them open.
there is no universal timeline for becoming who you are meant to be. you are not “too old.” you are carrying experiences, failures, heartbreak and lessons that teach you what truly matters in life. people underestimate what happens when someone keeps believing in their future for years without immediate results. because while everyone else slowly becomes cynical, they stay alive inside.
you can change your body. change your mindset. change your career. change your entire life direction. as long as your heart still beats, the story is not finished.
life hacks every man should learn and do at least once a year
1. wake up early on a saturday and take yourself out for breakfast. dress clean, smell good, go somewhere calm and order a proper meal. no rush, no pressure. just sit, eat slowly and enjoy the moment. take a few selfies too even if you usually don’t.
2. book a decent hotel room in your city for one night. nothing too expensive, just comfortable. carry a small bag like you’re escaping life for a bit. order food, take a long shower, put your phone away for some time and rest properly. learn that peace is the luxury.
3. take yourself to the cinema alone. buy popcorn. pick the exact seat you actually want. think deeply, laugh hard, cry if you need to, feel whatever you feel, no one talking to you. just you and the movie.
4. go to a café on a weekday, order a drink and a small pastry. sit by the window and face your phone down for a bit. watch people going to work, students rushing, cars passing, birds singing, children playing, just life moving in that pace.
5. take yourself somewhere peaceful outdoors. maybe a park, a quiet road, a waterfront or anywhere with fresh air. walk slowly with music in your ears or just enjoy the silence. clear your head a little.
6. learn to genuinely enjoy your own company, brother. if you can be happy alone, you become harder to break, harder to pressure and harder to control.
7. enjoy yourself man. come on, you need it, you deserve it.
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buena suerte 👍
As an adult, you owe it to yourself not to get fat. And you have to start early, in your 20s or 30s, to ensure that it is not so difficult to achieve.
There is no prestige in being fat. Stop using genetics as an excuse. It is something you can control. Do not get fat. The world is very cruel to fat people and, as you get older, it becomes detrimental to your health. Eat right and go to the fvcking gym!
I'll give you just 3 financial updates. Take them seriously.
1. Forget about building a house for now. That should be the least of your worries. That 50 to 100 million naira you want to waste on building can set you up for life. Even if you are not good at business or investing, simply put the money in Money Market Funds (MMF). You can do this through your bank or fintech apps like Opay, PalmPay, Cowrywise, and PiggyVest, where you can earn up to 20% annually. If you invest 100 million, you will earn 20 million naira every year while still keeping full access to your capital.
2. Save 30% of your income every single month and invest it consistently. Even If you earn as low as 100k naira monthly and save 30k, that is 360k in the first year. Put it in MMF or government securities and keep adding every month. Repeat this discipline for 10 years. With current double-digit returns, you will not have less than 8 million naira and you can easily cross 10 million if rates stay strong.
3. If you can afford a small car, buy one, maintain it properly, and use it for mobility and business. Stop attending important meetings and presenting proposals on bike or keke. A car puts you two steps ahead immediately.
Bonus tip: Instead of buying one land for 10 million and spending 100 million to build a house on it, buy 11 pieces of land. Do proper due diligence, surveillance, and documentation, then leave them for 5 to 10 years to appreciate. You could easily make nothing less than 500 million from that move.
Above all, love God.