when you cut out people in your life that constantly didn’t make you feel good there’s a moment of like silence in your life and you just think about the person you used to be and get disgusted with yourself for even tolerating so much for so long but then you start feeling peace
If you want to maintain healthy relationships in your life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about, apologize to them AND address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is (1/3)
Gentle reminder: Healthy relationships aren’t always joyful, relaxed, cohesive & harmonious. We grow at different rates+stages, we experience & learn differently, we think, perceive & love differently & don’t always see eye to eye. Please get comfortable with not always aligning.
Being with someone who is not afraid of difficult conversations and willing to communicate and fix things together because they know sometimes they're the problem >>>
If you’re going to be alone this holiday season because you chose to set boundaries, protect your peace, or stand up for yourself; I am so incredibly proud of you. That was a big thing to do, and it look a lot of self love and awareness to make that decision. +