The reality is that it doesn’t matter if someone wants to or not. If you have expectations that are not being met then they’re not being met. If you communicate about it and there’s no improvement? You’re wasting your time and need to move on
To see the diaspora claim we have white people to thank for this legislation is insane because same-sex relationships were criminalised under apartheid & punishable by up to seven years in prison under the Immorality Act.
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it's the "everyone wants to save the world but no one wants to help mom do the dishes" thing to me. they want to be hero of the day saving women in dark streets but never tackle the everyday things/ppl (incl themselves) contributing to rape culture
calling south africa “spiritually israeli” is genuinely so disgusting. it’s not even funny considering our solidarity with palestine. you guys are sick in the head
“Your mouth works” is such a disturbing statement. It reduces a woman to a set of usable body parts and reinforces the idea that a man’s sexual needs matter more than her consent, comfort, or dignity.
girls really are never spared from misogyny from the womb because wdym of ur ugly when ur pregnant its a girl and if u glow its a boy? LISTEN TO YOURSELVES 😭