This is actually what happens to a lot of women which is why so many men don’t think they’re actually rapists. If you say no several times and he keeps begging and going for it, it registers in a woman’s mind to either fight and potentially get killed or beat, or to just give in. This is why coercion is considered rape. This is why men who don’t accept no the first time, despite a woman fawning for her protection, are rapists.
Ion understand if your bd have a gf and the gf don’t give YOU nor yo child no issues and you genuinely don’t want the man then what’s the problem with that? maybe cuz im not a parent but allat he/she can’t be around my child bs is weird but maybe it’s cuz my parents got along😭😭