Introverts love intimacy, but they also need space. To recharge. To refuel. To think. And to make sense of it all. They have a big heart, but they also drain too damn fast. So if you really care, let them be alone for a while. They may not say it, but they'll love you even more.
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Nothing will cost you in life than your incapability to say No.This thing of wanting to show up great in everyone's book will paralyze you.Turn individuals down if you need to,disappoint people if you have to,soft nature will leave you emotionally paralyzed.
Your coworkers are not your friends. Do not have them on your real social media. Don't share your personal business with them. Definitely don't have sexual relations with anyone you work with. Nine out of ten, on any given day, they'll throw you under the bus with the quickness.
People value different things hun. You put value on clothes, they put value in the emotional health and entertainment. Nothing wrong with that. Each to their own. Live your life and stop projecting.
And when you pray tonight…pray for presence in the present. We spend so much time on the past and future never present. The past is full of “could’ve, should’ve” ..so many regrets. The future is hopeful but we never really know what it holds. Be present.. show up and live now!!
@mabhusulagc Yes, I recently had an encounter with someone I went on a date with. As they drove into the establishment I felt like I was suffocating to the point where I had to reach for my asthma pump. Needless to say that was our last encounter.
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I plugged baby mama , ex with a better job for my kids to have soft life.
Empower responsible baby mamas because should you be absent one day your kids will depend on her completely. She must give them soft life in your absence.
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Please try not be rude to insurance/sales/call center people - they’re just chasing their own targets.
Just firmly tell them “I’m not interested. Please don’t call me again”They’ll end the call right there & they won’t call again.
healthy friendships involve not agreeing with every decison the other person makes. they involve telling you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. it comes from a loving place of support for each other’s well-being. true friendships ground you, they don’t enable you
some people will never apologise to you. they don’t have the compassion, maturity or relational skills to think past their own ego to admit that they mistreated you. not everyone can tolerate holding themselves accountable, as it involves directly facing their flawed behaviour.