i do feel the same sometimes … kenapa harus haid, kenapa harus nyisihin uang buat beli pembalut, kenapa harus dilihat bersih, kenapa harus pake make up, kenapa harus rajin skincare, kenapa mukanya gaboleh jerawatan, kenapa harus pake bra tapi kalo gapake juga dadanya berat—
girl, be as picky as you want, because marrying late has never ruined a woman’s life, but marrying the wrong man has destroyed countless. Normalize choosing standards over desperation & freedom over fake fairy tales. because a ring without respect is just a handcuff in disguise.