Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.
Girl to girl —normalize saying "this isn't how I want to be loved for the rest of my life" & move on. You're literally someone's dream girl. Don't settle
I'm glad I mastered the skill of cutting a man off so easily and fast even if I like him a lot or even if it hurts! One man ruined it for everybody I detach fast asf now🤏🏽
I'm going to piss some men off with this, but the reason a lot of your parents and grandparents stayed married so long is because the women in those generations were financially trapped. When a woman makes her own money, the only thing a man can truly offer her is how he treats her.
That's why there's a male loneliness epidemic.
It sounds cliche, but every unsuccessful person I know believes the world is rigged against them. Every successful person I know understands life doesn’t fight fair and decides to win anyway.
Why i won’t settle? Because once I went to the gas station to put gas in my car & a random man pumping his gas looked at me, said “you shouldn’t be pumping your own gas.” Then pumped my gas for me AND gave me cash for how much I put into my car, then left. Generous men who just love to DO for women are still out there.