A man that value his relationship don’t be out here moving loose like he got options. Period. He not flirting, not entertaining side convos, and he dmñ sure ain’t making other btchẽs feel comfortable enough to even try him. The moment he start acting accessible, laughing a lil too hard, texting a lil too late… yeah, he already stepping out mentally. A man don’t accidentally act single… he choose to.
Unfortunately my last relationship completely changed me. So yes, I DO care about the people in your phone. Yes, I DO care about what you're doing when I’m not around. Yes, I DO care when you seem even slightly off. Yes, I DO care about things I wished I didn’t. And it’s not because I’m insecure, controlling, or trying to make your life difficult. It’s because I learned the hard way what it feels like to trust someone fully… and then be broken by them.
it’s humbling to be vulnerable enough to risk conflict repair only to realize someone isn’t a safe space for that vulnerability. there’s a lesson in that
Lustful men will never be satisfied and that sounds miserable. Imagine having someone who loves you unconditionally, respects you and is ultimately perfect and you still can't be satisfied. You will always rot. You will always lose. That will forever be your downfall.
Black people earning degrees is forever a flex and I’m tired of people acting like it’s not. It was once ILLEGAL for us to read. Every graduation is a form of resistance.
tbh all I want is a relationship where we talk like best friends, play like kids, argue like husband & wife and protect each other like siblings...
what a boring planet… no fairies, no elves, no mermaids, no dragons, no vampires, no ware wolves….. just bills, stress, gossip, and insufferable people
Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
DO NOT MAKE LIFE DECISIONS BASED ON YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND. Do not stay close to home for them, do not skip opportunities for them, do not pick a university that's close for them. They not the world! Grow yourself, expand your horizons.